I feel for you. BlueBelle
I was terrified of the dentist's after a bad childhood experience, so my teeth were in a shocking state.
It got to the point where i just had to go and a friend recommended my dentist. She is really nice and after 2 visits, i felt fine going back. She is private, though, so costs a fortune.
It's just that i am now facing extraction and immediate denture. I think not knowing what the front will look like is freaking me out in case i look awful and can't wear it.
Also i know there will be a lot of pain for weeks, what with extractiin ans sore gums.
I hope you find a nice dentist. If you can afford to go private, maybe you can ask around? I can't face changing to NHS even if i could find one as i am also worried about what they would be like, even though friends have got lovely ones.
Do try and go, though. I wish i had plucked up courage earlier and i might not have lost a lot of teeth.