Black Dog 22

What a thoughtful thing to do Scaredycat.
Hope DHs test is ok tomorrow and you manage to drive all right Sweetpeasue.
Glad you got through today Doodle. Hugs.xl
Hopefully post tomorrow. Bit shattered today.
I do long posts as draft emails which save automatically. Then copy to BD.
Love to everyone. xx

Doodle- today I lit 2 candles in St Aidans Church - one for my Son and his father and one for your DH. You have been brave today and it has passed. - I hope you have a peaceful night.xx

Thank you for the lovely photo Ellie Anne. It’s beautiful
What a lovely peaceful place to walk.
Wyllow hope you get your care worker soon. You need some sunshine in your life,
HVDY yes I have had company today but it felt like they were there and I wasn’t. I’m glad I went to church though.
Thank you for your kind words,
Scaredycat I’m pleased you’ve had such a lovely holiday. Have a good time visiting family on the way home.
Sweetpeasue good you’ve heard from your son and all ok. That’s nice you can relax a bit now. Like you I can’t resist googling things then regret it after. Hope your DH’s biopsy isn’t painful for him.
nadateturbe thank you too. Yes I have had company my lovely friend and neighbour. Hope you are ok.
Sorry I’ve not posted much tonight.
I’ve had a hard day today. Been to church and had company but it’s been so sad. Thanks for all your kindness and lovely comments all of you. Your support is so comforting.xx

Hope your own pain has not been too awful today. You have had so much to deal with and I just hope you can get some help soon, I really do.

SweetpeaSue I know how worried you are about your husband, and naturally so. I Google things, too. I tell myself it's got to have knowledge beforehand. I hope your husband's head pain clears up soon, and that his biopsy goes well tomorrow. As we know, things often take ages to be dealt with.

Heard from son1 yesterday and everything good. Makes such a difference when I hear from him and we can have a little chat and know things are fine. DGD happy too.
DH not well and he just seems to get more exhausted every day. He still has 'thick foggy' head though piercing throbbing not as bad. I can't believe things have gone on so long so hope to hear about consultant appt soon.

Love to all and those not personally mentioned. Sorry if had to leave any out.

Scaredycat Ah, it's so sad to leave a lovely place when it's been so good a holiday. You will bring back those memories with you and perhaps return a other time. It's fortunate you can visit family on the return journey and I'm sure they will be pleased to see you . You have such a wide family -must be nice.
Nadateturbe Hope you've been OK today and got a decent night's rest . Must be wearing when you have such broken sleep. Glad the eyedrops are helping.
Wyllow We all believe you will get better even if you feel things are hopeless. You have been through so much and it's a struggle but we believe in you. I hope you've had a walk out with the MH worker today and there's some news about extra help. Did you manage to see the Dr - think you said you were making appt?
Doodle Thinking about you today.x

Mobile keeps losing my messages -so upsetting. I might need to send some posts separately.

EllieAnne We once had a week in holiday cottage nr Tarbert and drove out to just past Campbeltown intending to walk to Mull of Kintyre but didnt in the end. Wasnt sure we'd make it but think Arran was close. Think you can't be far away. You've such a lovely country.
HVDY So warm here so hope it's not too hot where you are. We're never satisfied are we but such a big change from all the rain. I don't think the procedure will be pleasant but hopefully shouldn't be pain during it. Made mistake of googling it and think they take 3 centimeters of artery but don't understand how the blood flows through afterwards. Can't help needing to know.

ScaredyCat Enjoy your family visits. The weather's glorious here today.

Doodle You cared for your husband deeply and did so much to help him when he was ill. You were a marvellous wife. I hope you've had someone to chat to today x

Just lost posts. Grrrr!

Doodle Thinking of you today . Sending a big hug and I hope you have company today too. I echo Scaredycat's words. You did all you could for your dear husband. Much love . xxx

Doodle- thinking of you today and hoping you get some comfort from knowing you were the best wife to your dear husband. Please seek company if you need it today. Love as always xx
EllieAnne- how wonderful to live in such a beautiful place. Great photo.
HVDY- Hope you have as comfortable day as possible.
Wyllow- hope you can get out for a walk today and feel the sun on your face.
SweetPeaSue- hope tomorrow goes well and is not too uncomfortable for DH. Take carex
Last day here and then going to visit my two stepchildren and families on the way home. So looking forward to seeing them all. Last walk on this wonderful beach today🥲 Take care allxx

Doodle so sad for you today and giving you a big hug. I hope you have some company. xx

Doodle I hope you'll have some company today, of all days. I'm glad the online bereavement group is a help. You're a lovely lady, and you're doing very well.

EllieAnne That's a beautiful photo. What stunning scenery.

Wyllow3 Hope the worker today might go somewhere with you, for a bit of fresh air. Koko.

Hope ALL BDers manage to have a decent day x

It sounds like you’v got just the right presents, HVDY. The wrong label? Good job you were alert to it! You must be frustrated by that wait.

Glad you managed to get out for a bit, nadateturbe

I’m really sorry you cant get the cream, Scaredycat. Not good! It’s been ages.

Oh Doodle, you poor love x the anniversary. Good to hear about the leaf. Glad today it was meaningful, and hear about Cruise.

Its a lovely photo, Ellie Anne

Thinking of you and DH, Sweetpeasue

Thank you all again for good wishes. Dressing gown again today, see worker tomorrow, but they still haven’t sorted the care agency. Glad it’s OK to b as I am.

Night night to all BD’s xx

Doodle it is the Isle of Arran in the distance.

Sorry, I've left it too late, will answer everyone tomorrow.
Lovely photo EllieAnne.
Hope everyone has a peaceful night.xx

EllieAnne So beautiful. The mountains in the background -where is that?

Appreciate all the kind thoughts.
Doodle here is a photo from my walk last night.

Oh Doodle So many years with your other half and such love between you both. All of those years very precious and special. I hope you will see someone tomorrow and not be alone all day. I just wish I could change things. I 'm glad the online bereavement group is a help and hope Cruise will soon have a space. You are kind to think of others here and it shows great courage - you are a remarkable lady. Thankyou I hope appt will come soon. Gentle hug and love .
HVDY You have been so strong and brave after what happened to you. Such injustice is extremely hard to accept and I know no one else really understands unless it's happened to them. The NHS is much much harder to bring to task than people understand. I just wish now that your appt was closer and hope your pain will ease off gradually before then. Lovely gifts for your son's birthday. Had to Google axe- throwing - never heard of it.
Scaredycat Wonderful to see dolphins and seals feeding like that. Your boat trip must have been amazing experience. So glad you're having a great time. Your words to everyone are so thoughtful .I'm sorry about the sad anniversary. It must bring back such hard memories but also you will have such special , precious ones too. Thankyou the biopsy I don't think will be pleasant ( can't believe I watched a video - how stupid was that). But hopefully the local anathesia will block any pain .
Nadateturbe Hope your break away is still going well and you're managing to balance activities with rest. Also hope your eyedrops are keeping your eyes comfortable.
Wyllow I'd love to see you back to your brighter self -for your own sake - but we also want to see you as you are now too. It's OK to be you here.

Thinking of everyone not mentioned and hope for a peaceful night for all.x

ScaredyCat Kind words to everyone from you, particularly to Doodle. Fancy seeing dophins! I'd have been so excited. Seals are lovely, too. Nature is wonderful, even though it's a sad day for you.

Sweetpeasue that’s a very clear description of your DH’s problems. How frustrating the GP won’t listen and act appropriately. I do hope your DH gets his rheumatology appointment soon and within the four weeks. Hope the biopsy goes ok.
It’s so lovely of you to think of me. You’re so kind. It’s our wedding anniversary tomorrow. Would have been 54 years.
I ordered a leaf for the memorial tree for him today.
nadareturbe yes I realise compared to many I am lucky. I have a caring family and some good friends. How have you been today? Glass of wine with dinner is nice.
HVDY yes keeping busy is a distraction. Being with others can be a mixed blessing. Sometimes keeping up the pretence is hard sometimes I feel totally disconnected from whoever I’m with and just talking on automatic pilot. Other times like today I had a good natter with my friend and it was easy and nice.
Wow that’s an amazing blood pressure. They must have been so worried about you. DH has been over 275 but not that high.
Sorry your appointment is so far away. Is there chance of a cancellation before then?
I knew a nurse from the hospital who went axe throwing. She loved it thought it was brilliant.
Candy being on my own now I don’t need headphones which is why I can play it on Alexa. I have joined an online bereavement group and it is a help. Cruise will contact me when they have a space.
Hope all is ok for you and the family.
Ellie Anne how are you doing? Have you been for a beach walk recently? Bet your son was pleased with his kindle. Good idea.
Thank you for your kind words Scaredycat. What a lovely day you’ve had. Love seeing the seals and dolphins. How lucky to catch sight of them.
Wyllow keep on posting we are with you all the way.

What a lovely post to everyone Scaredycat. And such a caring post to Doodle. I'm glad you've had a nice boat trip, and enjoyed it although it's obviously a very sad day for you. I've never seen dolphins. Nature really is good for the soul.

Hi All,
Nadateturbe- Enjoy the better weather at the caravan- think the weekend is supposed to be good.
Glad your plants were Ok - keeping my fingers crossed for ours at home.
Loved that Sunset pic- is it a possible painting for you?
HVDY- your day out sounded pretty perfect to me- glad you were able to go.
My goodness I didn’t know BP could go so high- sounds like a recipe for a stroke to me.
Son1 will love those pressies- really good ideas.Axe throwing sounds like a Viking Sport!!
Oh dear more waiting for you- hope things don’t get any worse for you in the meantime. I still can’t get my cream - the problem is pre cancerous so hope the supply resumes soon.
SweetPeaSue- your DH s GP appt didn’t sound very pleasant- a bit dismissive. Where is the kindness and empathy you need from your doctors. I hope the biopsy is not too unpleasant for him and that afterwards things will be clearer.You are so clued up- thank goodness. But of course sometimes knowledge throws up more worries.
I think prayers always count- wine is good.
Candy - you have busy doggy days ahead. Do your two like their visitor?
Thank you the weather was kind at Lindesfarne and has taken a turn for the better.
Hope you had a good sleep and don’t forget to rest sometimes.
EllieAnne- Kindle is a lovely present- you’re a lovely Mum.
Wyllow- Ah the Wyllow we know is still there- just not able to show herself right now. Please hang on in there Wyllow- life is waiting for you and brightness will break through. Kokoxx
Doodle- Some days are much harder than others and life can seem drained of joy. But a game with your GS or hugs from your Sons and you will know you have much to live for. Just don’t expect too much of yourself- you have lost so much so allow yourself to grieve. You are an amazing , selfless caring person.
This coast is so wild - today we went on a boat and saw seals and dolphins catching Salmon. Today is the saddest of Anniversaries but seeing the wonders of nature heals your soul I think. Take care dear Doodle.
Whiff,Zackouma,Allsorts,Jaffacake,Nanny and any I,ve missed or who just read - wishing you a peaceful night.

Yes, they accepted full responsibility but said my stroke was caused by Covid . Their word against mine, so I couldn't make a claim (it's notoriously difficult to sue the NHS).

Haven't heard anything from MSK clinic, so rang a number given if I haven't heard within 2 weeks (referral made 2nd July). Woman said they sent me a text yesterday (no they hadn't). The earliest appointment is August 16th. More waiting, not to worry.

HVDY So there were many mistakes. I hope they accepted some kind of responsibility. Not that it helps. Your life was totally changed by this. Shocking.
Your sons presents are all good. Although axe throwing sounds a bit scary. Had to Google. I'd never heard of it.
So sunny here, going out.
Hope everyone is OK. And you manage to get out for a while.