My sock aide is also a bit hit and miss , I manage to get them to my heels but then able to pull them on whilst sitting on the sofa. My Best Buys were the elastic laces, my grabber and long shoe horn . I use my grabber to manoeuvre my feet into my knickers and getting the washing out of the machine too. My six week check is also next week and I hope I get the OK to sleep on my side ??. At last I have only had to take paracetamol first thing this morning , need some now before bed though I think .