I discovered crop top bras back in the summer. So comfortable. All is safely gathered in. I don't know how they manage to cantilever everything into place using only elastic and no hard wires or thick straps but they do. I got mine in M&S.
I think the problem is the designers make bras for younger people and forget that older folk have a more flaccid body. For me there are never enough hooks without a bra extender which I refuse to buy after spending a fortune on pretty underwear! I’ve given up.
I’ve contemplated buying a front fastening stretchy bra with broad back and straps from a catalogue. It might work.
But does anybody have helpful suggestions for the accommodation (for want of a better word) of *back fat*as either my bra is way too big or my rear view suggests I have another pair beneath my shoulder blades. This was not a problem when I was younger ??
I once had to take a bra off at a dinner party ( not in front of startled diners)?but went to the loo, removed it and stuffed it in my bag, fortunately I had a silk scarf in there which I used as a bit of a cover up.I enjoyed the rest of the evening.
That’s a huge jump in size Quizzer?? I have been measured twice in the past and both fitters got it completely wrong, choosing such tight bras that I felt faint in them ( like a Victorian heroine). I now just make sure that bras are tried on, so no online shopping for them, as each bra, even in the same size seems to vary.A bra shouldn’t ride up at the back, nor should it dig in tightly under the boobs, and all should be ‘safely gathered in’.
Waste of time! I was measured and persuaded I was a 34F when in fact I’d be wearing 38E most of my adult life. It had to be given to charity as it was unbearably tight!
What is it about mature ladies and their bras? I was shocked to read in a recent post that many ladies were not wearing their bras during lockdown because they were uncomfortable. It is estimated that over half of British women wear the wrong size bra. A couple of years ago I took my older SIL shopping to choose an outfit for her GD’s wedding The assistant in the shop was so helpful and eventually an outfit was chosen, but the assistant then tactfully suggested that my SIL should be measured for a bra to go with it. The bra she was wearing slung her boobs at waist level! She is not a well endowed lady so the weight should not be a problem. My SIL declared that she had been this bra size for years, even though she had dropped two stone in weight. How many women don’t realise that their size changes throughout life, especially after the menopause. I gently persuaded my SIL to go to the lingerie department of a nearby M&S where they usually have a bra fitter. My SIL had been wearing a size 42B bra, but the fitter measured her as a 36D and brought in a few to try on. SIL was amazed how well they fitted and how comfortable they were!! Once we get out of lockdown I would encourage anyone who is uncomfortable in their bra to get properly measured and buy one that IS comfortable.