Fra ctured wrist

Rowantree I do hope you're feeling a bit better now.

Personally I'm 5 weeks and due to have my plaster off next week - yippee! Still painful if I rotate my wrist so hoping for physio; they've been great here when I've had 2 previous fractures so hopeful.

Are you able/supposed to wiggle your fingers now?

Hope you're soon feeling a bit better. I ended up sleeping in separate bedroom as I was so restless. It was painful for a couple of weeks, I did have bad swelling. How about listening books if you don't feel up to reading. Or, a mad idea, sing along to some happy songs, it might cheer you up, or at least make you laugh at yourself. Here are some good ones www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/happy-songs/

thanks again all! Not forgetting Jackson Nanaandgrumpy whose wise advice makes me chuckle! i wont be going commando though!
As to typing one handed its easier on my smartphone but that is playing up and on its way out, so i use the old desktop a lot still.
i'll try again with reading. im feeling the old black dog rearing its head again too which i hope is temporary but all my negative feelings and thoughts are thrown sharply into focus at the moment. i'll have to find creative ways to overcome this and the setback, as others often do far better than i ever could - but i'll certainly try!

lovebooks wishing you a good recovery too so that your surgery can go ahead asap.
I did find, after I broke my ankle, that getting around downstairs on a wheeled office chair was very effective, using the other foot to propel myself. It did take the strain off my arms using crutches all the time.
It only works on hard floorsof course.
I managed to get up quite a speed!

Yes, I think you may be feeling tired because it takes a while to get over an anaesthetic.
Your body is telling you that rest is what you need.
Well done, you are typing very well one-handed!
I hope you'll be able to concentrate on reading again soon (that could be a temporary after-effect of the anaesthetic too.
Here's to an excellent recovery Rowantree

I've only just come to this thread. So sorry to read your news Rowantree, what rotten luck. And I really sympathise with you re not being able to knit or sew - I would find that so very hard too. Wouldn't miss the gardening though
I hope the time goes quickly for you but I suspect it'll feel as if it's dragging, while you're unable to do the things you so want to.
Still, try to find the things to be grateful for - you don't have to go to work, you've got a wonderful OH who's no doubt running around after you as well as taking you out for walks (sorry, didn't mean it to sound as if you're his pet dog ). And I imagine you can still enjoy a glass of and some !!
I do hope it will start to improve now you've had it all pinned and plated. Sending you and wishes for a speedy return to full health.
(PS: Have you joined the '50 books a year (or fewer)' thread? Maybe now's the time if not )

Sorry to hear things got worse Rowantree.

How about some audio books - you can get them from the library to avoiding purchasing ? And what about a jigsaw- should be possible with your left hand.

Jackson ( he of the fractured wrist- aged 7) says it does get better and the bonuses include less showers ( always good in a small boys books) , daddy lets him ‘go commando’ indoors to aid bathroom visits and no one asks you to do chores ???

Hope it improves now you’ve had the op!

thank you both! im having a dexa scan too. because i had an op on the 11th my cast wont now be off for ages but at least ill get a more comfortable one in 28th at the fracture clinic. cant imagine having to work full time with this! TV it will have to be as i cant even focus enough to read much.thanks both for the encouraging words!

Rowantree so sorry to hear your news. Broke my own wrist (distal radius + bone displacement) on Dec 23, getting cast off on Jan 31, dexa scan on Feb 9. Have a couple of times inadvertently turned the wrist - incredibly painful! - but mostly it's the sheer relentlessness of having to cope using 1 (wrong!) hand. Am at work f/t but coming in at my own speed as getting dressed and out is a huge ask!

As other posters have said, be kind to yourself and get plenty of good food and rest. Don't feel guilty about indulging in some box set bingeing! but do whatever exercises have been recommended now and later.

Sugar! that should be

Yes yes yes! You will take time to get over this. You have had two major traumas in a short time. 3 fractures in your wrist! And a titanium plate fitted. Rest, eat well and excersise gently. The weather isn't too bad so you could do some gentle walking. We don't mind your typing, just keep in touch. And don't beat yourself up. Sending and [cake]

hi again grans. sorry i cant type properly on this computer one handed. i had an op on saturday to put in a titanium plate. my wrist had actually fractured in three places. it went well but i reacted badly to the anaesthetic and had to stay overnight. Since then the pain got loads worse but improving now. i have to keep my hand elevated to prevent swelling. i feel knocked for six, low, exhausted, no energy, trarful, self pitying and bloody useless. no idea when fracture clinic appointment will be to replace cast for something more comfortable. i feel i should be coping better than this. how do i regain my energy? i have to be in a cast for several weeks so cant garden which i love, or knit,or stitch. many people have worse things happen to them so i guess ill have to get a grip (haha) and get on with it. Should i be really feeling this tired and weak 4 days post op?

Broke mine in 2 places a few years ago,I'll second the front fastening bra and add an electric can opener as a great help along with a hot water dispenser that was filled up for me before my OH left the house.Mine didn't heal properly and I have limited use of my thumb meaning I cant do the intricate cake icing I used to do .I still make cakes ..even wedding cales but they are much simpler now .Good luck with yours and try to stay calmthe frustration at not being able to do all you used to is the worst thing about it.

And yes, I'll be asking for a referral for a bone density scan.
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More lovely replies, excellent ideas and advice and wince inducing shares of fellow accident prone gransnetters! I have a limbo cover do showering is easier now and have bought baggy briefs instead of wearing my former shapewear. I don't have any skirts but i do have loose tunics with useful pockets in and acwarm poncho I can wear outside.im going to treat myself to a haircut this week and try to focus on reading and planning ahead.thsnks for advice about physio and excercise too. Will get a squeeze ball if hosp says I can do that. Till then I have to keep it as still as possible. Not easy!

So sorry rowantree you have my sympathy. I broke my wrist years ago but just a few years ago I fell and smashed my shoulder, big op, pins etc and now arthritis has set in I will need a replacement eventually. When I broke my wrist I found I was able to shower by putting a large plastic bag over my lower arm (very elegant!) and forget a bra for the time being. Please ask for a DEXA scan to check out for Osteoporosis, everyone knows we should be offered this as a wrist fracture is often the first sign.

Some years ago I broke my right arm in two places and had to have my shattered elbow re-built.
The most important things responsible for me keeping my sanity were a fold down seat in the shower and buying front fastening bras so that I did not need anyone to help me with truly personal tasks.

I hope you get better soon, but remove ALL mats and any other obsticles first, then get the waterproof cover for your arm, as others have suggested.You seem to be doing well typing, and we are all pleased to hear from you, keep up the good work, and let us know how you get on.
Have a hairdo at the hairdressers, that will make you feel so much better.
Good Luck.

Fell over on Friday taking GD ice skating. Must learn to act my age. Have two suspected wrist fractures and am in splints but hoping they will turn out to be sprains. Can type with one finger. DH cooking and cleaning. Would be a nightmare on my own. Hope all sufferers recover well.

Oh dear. Another gran with mats. At least you didnt break anything Sheilasue

Aw that’s awful Rowantree, so annoying when you ant to get on a do things, frustrating isn’t it. I am clumsy, 3 years ago fell over in local shopping centre broke my hip. In hospital for 7 days.
Week before Christmas 2018 went to get on bus didn’t get my foot up on the bus properly and tripped luckily forward onto bus felt so silly packed bus.
Then Saturday morning got out of bed went to the loo tripped on mat and bashed my arm on edge of sink, huge big bruise and lump. I am thinking of staying in bed permanently ?

wear!!!

Just as an afterthought, my wrist now hates the cold and when I am on my bike I now have to where a glove whatever the weather.

Broke my right wrist a few years ago. You've probably been told not to wriggle fingers because you have a temporary plaster and there is a danger if the plaster is too loose (as it can be because the swelling goes down) that the bones will shift. You will adapt but it's harder as you get older. One of the nurses said to me when I did mine that children can manage one handed so much better. Lots of good advice about clothing here.
I would say practice doing things as you're sitting down, left handed drawing, writing etc. Anything to help your coordination. You will get better and if you want a positive it is supposed to be very good for your brain to use your non-dominant hand more. (Realise I've used left and right and you may be left handed-if so apologies) Good luck!

Oops pps
But the most annoying part was no driving! I ignored this by day 5 ..... Despite not being able to find reverse. Very naughty of me but I was going stir crazy!!!