Varifocal lenses

That happened to me too Nonnie. It could be that you need larger frames. Keep nagging! Opticians have all sorts of gadgetry now that should be able to ensure you get what you need in the right place

Could it be that you need bigger frames? When I bought my last pair the optician rejected my first choice because they were too small to be effective.

What are the frames like? Last year I chose some lovely frames but the lens had to be thinned to fit them. Three returns because of the same problem as you, until one assistant in the shop said that some people cannot get on with thinned lenses.
I chose a different frame, the lenses in those were not thinned and they were perfect.
Just a thought.

Oh dear - I too have worn varifocals for a very long time and had no problems, except it is difficult to get the bit for music reading right. I think you just have to stick with it till they get them right.

I have found that the deeper the frame the more satisfactory the result.