maryeliza54, thanks for the link to the informative article. I've only known one baby who'd "fit" into the categories described in the article. What a challenge for parents, who clearly should have excellent support from paediatricians, psychologists, surgeons etc. I expect that those services are in the early stages of developing understanding of better ways of supporting the children and their parents, that the rather simplistic approaches to date.
As you say, intersex is different to the issues faced by transgender people.