It's a very tough one.When a close relative was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer with secondaries -never smoked - her oncologist told her categorically there was no cure, but a certain chemo tablet could buy her more time.She wanted that so badly to spend precious time with her grandchildren and family.A lot of the extra 6 months or so was spent feeling dreadful with chemo side effects,blisters everywhere, weeping eyes etc.Plus numerous 50 mile round trips to the oncology department.
Heaven knows what I would do in that situation. None of us do unless it happens.But DD and did both say maybe we would prefer to forgo the essentially experimental drugs and spend more time at home,or doing things we really wanted to plus enjoying our food -very important to us .Plus with a new grandchild I honestly think I would rather that money be spent elsewhere in the NHS if my prognosis was so poor.I hope that hasn't caused offence to anyone currently going through cancer treatment, or supporting a loved one.Just my oppinion, and as I say what choices would I make if offered them ?
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