I only ever had one hot flush.
I had a hysterectomy at 40.
I was about 48, sitting in the chiropodist chair, feet up in the air.
All of a sudden I was overwhelmed with heat. Naive as I was, I said to chiropodist..wasn't it hot. She was ok.
After a couple of minutes I could stick it no longer, leapt out of the chair and straight to the front door for cool air..... in bare feet...public walking past and me fanning myself.
Back in and feet were finished off.
It was only later back in work that I realised it was a hot flush.
I miss the woman my daughter was before she lost her husband


I haven't had any other symptoms of the menopause either, apart from the periods just stopping. As I'm 60 next week, I guess I can assume I've had it though! 

