Having dark hair, I always felt that I had a slight upper lip shadow and used Jolen bleach to disguise it. However, around the menopause I became aware that the hair was increasing and becoming coarser and I had several long hairs on my chin. I tried waxing, tweezing and a little sandpaper type block which I don't think is available now. 8 years ago I began having electrolysis on the advice of a friend and I now have hardly any hair at all. My daughter has promised me that if I end up in care home she will make sure that she brings tweezers each time she visits!