Rula
I have a fabulous friend. She's vegan. But a peaceful vegan, if that's the right word! She never mentions it. I only found out about 4 years after knowing her.
She will host dinner parties. And she will cook meat for meat eaters. Which has always surprised me.
I'm guessing that's not the norm. Or am I wrong?
I love the peaceful vegan comment. Totally understand.
I'm vegetarian but eat very little animals products in general and try to use items in every day life that have as little negative impact on other animal life as possible (but i don't label myself as vegan as I don't feel I want this pressure if this makes sense..or the judgement of others?
I'm a quiet vegetarian and do cook meat products for friends and family.
I had a family member who was a very "loud" vegan and it was so awkward to eat or be around her in general. I felt it was a terrible advert, as such, to anyone eating alternatively. (Although it's not such a big thing now) it annoyed everyone!
I try to be tolerant about other people's views but do sometimes have to bite my lip.
I know someone who declares they hate cats as they are all spiteful (she hasn't ever met any of the cats that have lived with us...bundles of fur who just lie about, trot after us for affection and mostly catch moss as prey
) she also eats all meat and lives on a cattle farm (for beef) but as she thinks pigs are cute and too intelligent to eat...she won't cook or eat pork.
.but wolfes the cow meat and anything else that used to walk about..Go figure.
Each to their own etc.... eek but I do struggle with this.
However, as someone who has to be dairy free and is gluten intolerant , vegetarian and has mouth rashes from eating most fruits..I am forced to be quite a picky eater and have been publicly made to feel ashamed or a fuss pot,so I try not to openly have strong views about other people's foods.
Great discussion!