My DH loves cooking but absolutely hates washing up. After making the meal the kitchen looks like a bomb site. He did try to clear up last week when I was unwell for a few days, but that made things worse! Yes they ARE different !
I was having a bit of a moan at OH because of all the food preparations for one of our festivals (NewYear etc.) He said I'll help - what can I do? So I allocated him one cooking job. He's turned it into a major industrial production. Enough to feed an army. Of course I had to go to the shops for the extra ingredients etc. They're so different