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Early reading v continental custom - teachers’ thoughts sought

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sarahcyn Tue 18-Aug-26 12:18:32

I am posting this here as I have noticed a good number of experienced ex-teachers are on Gransnet and I would value their opinions.
My elder son lives in Poland with his Polish wife. They have 3 darling children. The oldest is 7 and starts formal school in September. Only then will he begin learning to read.
Until now it seems to me that his Polish preschool - he has been going since he was four - has focussed very much on social skills, getting children able to focus and sit quietly, teaching them to recite by heart, science experiments, lots of trips out, lots of music and dancing…oh and correct pronunciation of Polish - there is less tolerance of accents in Poland!
My son finds this all terribly worrying and feels his children are missing out. He was learning to read at a nursery school at 4, and was an avid reader, so naturally thinks that is the only way things should be done. Also the children have friends here in London whose early reading skills are very obvious.
Over the years I have come to feel that the Continental practice of delaying formal teaching of reading is probably very good for more children than our English obsession with early reading. When I think of my children at their private nursery schools in London 30 years ago having to sit tracing over letters endlessly - because that’s what we were told they needed to do- and compare it with the videos we get of my grandson and his class dancing the Polka with tremendous discipline and grace, I think I really got it wrong.
And statistics seem to show that Poland has a slightly higher literacy rate than the UK.
What do the Gransnet teachers think?
What is the evidence for either approach?

Septimia Tue 18-Aug-26 16:37:42

Both I and DS could read a bit before we started school. Learning early certainly didn't put him off and he's still an avid reader.

However, I do wish that children here could be taught the skills that Polish children are learning before starting school. DiL teaches reception and most of the children have no listening or social skills.

petra Tue 18-Aug-26 17:07:17

Greyduster

^that would open a can of worms if it was introduced in the uk^

It’s a can of worms we need to open and soon. Driving all children down a largely academic educational path like cattle is why we are failing many of them.

I’m sure you’ve read Alan Millburns ideas. It’s been a long time coming, let’s hope it comes to fruition. At least the PM is behind his ideas/ plans.

greyfur16 Tue 18-Aug-26 17:07:45

Greyduster

^that would open a can of worms if it was introduced in the uk^

It’s a can of worms we need to open and soon. Driving all children down a largely academic educational path like cattle is why we are failing many of them.

And creating "syndromes" where they might not be any.

It's terribly sad. Little boys in particular do not do well sitting on a carpet or holding a pencil too early.

JenniRen Tue 18-Aug-26 18:04:43

Is the child growing up bilingual?
Hopefully, your son has read to him in English and he was learning to read English books in an informal and enjoyable way with his father, without pressure.

If so, by the time he starts school in September he would be familiar with books and, surprisingly, children seem to be able to switch from one language to another quite easily. Although sometimes words from their other language may slip in!

Our friend's grandson is trilingual at age 9 and happily switches between languages, translating for his two Grannies.

JenniRen Tue 18-Aug-26 18:07:24

"When I think of my children at their private nursery schools in London 30 years ago having to sit tracing over letters endlessly - because that’s what we were told they needed to do"

There's a happy medium. Learning to enjoy books and being read to is important.
Tracing over letters that mean nothing except shapes could be very boring.

madeleine45 Tue 18-Aug-26 18:09:29

I have been a lecturer and teacher and have the full TEFL post graduate as well as my degree, and have taught from infants to adults and including teaching in a Montessori. Have lived abroad and so experienced all sorts of styles , and in particular have often been asked by bilingual families the best way to help their children learn, in both speaking and writing different languages.

So overall, I do think that reading stories and looking at pictures and nursery rhymes and poetry and songs, are there from very early on within the family, and encouraging bedtime story reading and looking at books together is a really good way to start for any children. We , teaching staff, found that in bilingual families, the best way to grow up with that invaluable skill of having two languages, was for each parent to speak their own language to the child, especially when they are little. So that even if the child asks you something in the other language, if you reply in your native language, they then not only gain the right pronunciation, but also the grammar and structure , which can be very different, with such things as genders of objects or where the verb goes in a sentence. The majority of the children would be a little slower than the single language in learning, but then they are able to assimilate the whole structures, and almost without trying will naturally use the appropriate forms for each one. By the parents or family using their own language, then even if the other parent is a good speaker of a language , the native speaker will make less mistakes .

Then having good books in both language and picture books that each parent can talk about in their own language , also helps . Every country has its own ways and have good and bad points. When I was moving around in Europe, parents who had to move often from country to country, would tend to go for the French Lycee system , because there , whichever country you went to ,the french lycee system was quite rigid and so on a monday in june class 4 would be on page 6 of book 3, so your child would have an easier move, without having those gaps or repeating the same norman history 3 times. But against that I personally think it is very rigid and allowed very little leeway so that the child who was average at a subject would be ok. The child who was advanced would be bored and put off, and the child struggling would be stressed and struggling.

So enjoy being granny and know that when you take them new books and read to them in bed you are helping a lot. I must say that I used to find other benefits for such children, as they were really aware of different ways of life from an early age, could convert their pocket money from one currency to another like the stock exchange and we would have interesting talks about the different things and foods etc that they had. So long as we respect each side and talk about any differences in a positive way , it always worked out well I found.

I will just add a couple of things that I think show how children from quite an early age can figure out how their world works. When I lived in Portugal , my parents came to visit bringing my youngest sister on her first trip abroad at age 4. She looked and listened and then started asking " what is this called and that called in portugese" followed by asking what her name was in portuguese. Then looked round and said " Oh , they just use different words" At her age she was still learning new english vocabulary so saw no difficulty in adding more words. An english friend who had been living there for I think 2 years had 3 girls, The two older children had arrived with english as their main language but soon picked up good portuguese, but the youngest one was only about one when they arrived and portuguese was her first language. Later the father had promotion and went out to, I think, the Bahamas for a while , but knew that they would be moving to Brazil later. The parents decided to keep talking portuguese at home so that they would not lose their good accents etc . The two older children were fine with that , but the youngest, when her father spoke to her in portuguese, looked at him and said in english " they dont speak portuguese here" and after that would respond to any questions only in english and stuck to that. They then moved on to Brazil and she immediately talked in portuguese. They are grown up now but speak several languages which they have learnt from their travels, but we thought that was quite interesting.

I hope I havent gone on too long, but given you some ideas to think about. When they are a little older, and are visiting you or you visit them, then I think that baking is a great thing to do. So there is much measuring and so forth, but you either are telling them how you make your favourite cake, or they are explaining how you make something from a polish recipe and so reading recipes and then enjoying eating the results is a great learning skill, so you might look for a simple recipe book in english for children and take that with you too. I feel personally that children with the opportunity to have two threads to their lives are enriched far more than any slight delay in beginning, and grow up usually with a respect for other people and an open attitude that will help them throughout their lives.

M0nica Tue 18-Aug-26 18:12:14

petra

^that would open a can of worms if it was introduced in the uk^
There are a lot of plans in the uk to move towards that system.

I didn't have any choice, my children taught themselves to read well under 5 as did I and DH.

The method was simply that we were read to a lot and had favourite books that were much read and we soon worked out the connection between the spoken words and the words on the page.

M0nica Tue 18-Aug-26 18:14:50

Whoops, that reply is irrelevant to quote.

The reply to the quote is:

If any UK government decided to do that it would be an economy measure and spending on pre-school education would not be increased to meet the gap, with all the effects it would have on the quality of education in this country.

Mollygo Tue 18-Aug-26 18:53:06

M0nica makes a really good point.

Every time this comes up, I look at the staff pupil ratio of the country that is being held up as wonderful and doing it better than the UK.
This has been going on since early in my teaching career when the formula to aspire to was that of Reggio Emilia.

Early Years teachers back then were subject to endless INSET on how they should be using the Reggio Amelia approach.
It was interesting and had potential, but impossible to reproduce in the UK when e.g. I had a class of 38 mixed Reception/Y1 children and no TA in those days.
Despite that, children I taught did learn to read, write and do basic maths even in reception, alongside the learn through play curriculum that we used.

In Poland, the average staff-to-pupil (teacher-to-student) ratio varies by school level.
Elementary or primary schools average about 10 to 12 pupils per teacher.

Secondary schools average about 9 pupils per teacher,
and higher education or tertiary institutions average around 17 students per teacher.

Just read that again.
School Levels and Ratios:
Primary School: ~10–12 pupils per teacher
Secondary School: ~9 pupils per teacher Higher Education: ~17 students per teacher

The UK government ANY UK government is not going to do that.
I agree that there now appears to be less development of conversational and social skills in many preschool children, so we are going to have to address those areas even more.
However, that isn’t going to happen in classes of 30 with 1 teacher, 1 TA, however good they are.
Re reading?
If children have a good command of language, reading will be easier.
New strategies and consistent use of those strategies all help.
So many children including mine and my DGC learn to read before school.
What would you have them do until they reach 7?