Penstemmon, thank you. Yes, this is what I meant. Of course you don't need to have taught in a comprehensive school to have a good idea about what actually goes on. Some parents, Governors, kitchen helpers, cleaners, and of course the students themselves do. At our school we also had some adult volunteers who helped as assistants, and also members of the community who used to attend classes with our students. They all knew- of course much better than someone who has not attended such a school or worked in one. That makes sense, surely.
Many of my family have never been in a state school, never mind a comprehensive school- and I'm afraid they have not got a clue apart from all the prejudice and hearsay.
Reducing contact because my heart just isn't in it.

