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Doodle Sun 03-May-26 19:56:19

Yes another new thread. A gentle chat for old friends and new

Grammaretto Wed 05-Aug-26 09:15:06

Thanks Jan. I hope my house sale will go through without too many hitches. It's not done and dusted yet.

I was shocked to see the fires near Dunwich.
My in-laws lived at Southwold for many years so we were regular visitors to the area.
I hope there's some serious rain soon.

You are allowed to grumble to us whenever you need to. You have such a lot to contend with.

My sciatica is easing a lot though I still begin and end the day with an ice pack.

My garden is a riot. Everything has gone to seed in the raised bed . It looks a picture. I will try to send one.

I hope to have a fairly restful day today.

My helper likes to be busy all the time so that could be difficult. 😂😅 I let her drive my car so she did 2 tip runs without me.
We got a lot done yesterday.

She bought a bus pass so yesterday she went into Edinburgh where she has a friend. She lived and worked in Edinburgh for a few years.

My neighbour is hosting a leaving party this evening for a couple who are moving away. She's the 3rd to move in the past year. It's not even to live near their children.
It's quite unsettling.

I hope you slept better last night Doodle
I'm going to yarn group this morning to catch up on the gossip and plan my next garment.

Doodle Tue 04-Aug-26 21:53:20

Grammaretto I’ve found it difficult to sleep recently too. I like a cool bedroom at night and it’s far from that. Also things going on in my mind like you have to i expect.
Hope you get on well with your new helper.
Jan those wild fires are scary. I hope we have some rain soon.

Jan16 Tue 04-Aug-26 18:43:41

Good Evening from a tinder dry Norfolk. Its still quite hot and no sign of any rain. A dark cloud went over a few minutes ago and managed to spit out about 6 drops! Its getting very serious now and we have had quite a few wild fires especially at Dunwich Heath which is actually in Suffolk! Its a nature reserve the size of 210 football pitches. Many rare habitats and countless wildlife decimated in minutes.
Our garden is virtually dead. Although we arent gardeners - well I used to be but cant do anything now since my stroke - we have always liked to see the garden looking tidy and colourful.
This is turning into a miserable post so think I had better go back to drinking my glass of wine!
So pleased Gramaretto has sold her house and here’s hoping you find your forever house very soon.

Grammaretto Tue 04-Aug-26 01:38:09

My new helper arrived today and is settling in. We had some good chats but as she had been awake since 4am to fly from Ireland she was understandably very tired.

I parted with 3 more bikes today and a dozen stacking chairs. It feels good.

Sorry you poor people are so hot!
It's on the cool side here with plenty of rain. The helper hasn't taken her coat off yet 😂

I can't get to sleep again. Too much in my head. My back is definitely a lot better but I've booked half a dozen chiropractor appointments and am doing my exercises.

I too would love to know if NN has resolved her work/life balance.

Doodle Mon 03-Aug-26 23:12:57

Still hot here too Ixion I’ve got my fan on full blast and I’m still warm. Contemplating going to Reading shopping Thursday but the thought of bing in a bus in this heat putting me off.
Grammaretto hope you’re getting on well with your new helper.

ixion Mon 03-Aug-26 19:19:10

Has your helper arrived safely, Grammaretto? She sounds everything I would like to be - fit, and a traveller😩
I hope she can help you out with your back limitations, I am sure she will enjoy her stay too.

Still hot here, too, Doodle. One more day tomorrow then I think it's downhill all the way. Tho' we have had a significant period of rain over 24 hours way back when.

Magnums are lined up ready for the final curtain.🍦

Hoping Kaimoana is faring well at this busy time and hoping the NNs are resolving their work-life balance issues🌻

Would be good to hear!

Doodle Sun 02-Aug-26 21:36:05

Still sweltering here at 9.30 pm . Doors open fan on. I wonder if the rain will make it down here . We need it.
I always had the feeling your helpers were young people Grammaretto. (Not meaning you’re old 😱 oops)
Hope she’s good company.
I’ve been dog sitting today. They were both good. Slept all the time….as did I 🤣

Grammaretto Sat 01-Aug-26 22:52:33

We've had quite a lot of rain Doodle and it's quite cold.
My next helper is coming from Australia and she tells me she spends every Summer in Europe and then returns to Australia for their Summer. So she never has winter.

I wonder what she'll make of the weather here in Scotland 😂

She's almost as old as me but sounds incredibly fit.

I've had a quiet day and nearly finished my knitting. I'm making a baby cardigan but the baby is already born. I had better get a move on. 😂

Doodle Sat 01-Aug-26 21:49:23

Grammaretto those vases of flowers are lovely. So nice to see all your pictures. Sadly we don’t have any flowers in our communal gardens only shrubs.
Still very hot here. Anyone got any rain?

ixion Sat 01-Aug-26 19:24:14

Thank you for the info, NS.
I currently have tubs of Alba, Brilliant Blue and Black Jack. I must resist the temptation to expand!

I recall your sweet peas from previous years, Grammaretto. Always a joy!

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 14:54:32

Oh. They are here now!!

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 14:53:55

Where did they go???
Two from Dobbies one from elsewhere...

It was really lovely.

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 14:04:49

Here are some screenshot, ixion

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 14:02:46

ixion

I love the bi-colour agapanthus, NS.
Does it have a name?

Sadly it's a white and dark purple/blue one too close to each other...
BUT we did have Agapanthus 'Fireworks' for a few years which was lovely!
I'll look for some photos...

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 13:59:14

Oh no!!!
Can't you maybe section bit off for someone else???

Grammaretto Sat 01-Aug-26 11:31:33

What a strong display NotSpaghetti no sign of drought either.

Here are my wee vases ready to go on the Town Hall tables for today's café.

I'm been doing mental arithmetic and come to the conclusion that that house is too expensive for me.
There's got to be one that is smaller and more me
My DC will be relieved.

A friend is organising a leaving party for a mutual friend who comes to my yarn group. She's off to pastures new. I have the job of trying to contact her particular chums in the group.
One down, 6 to go. It's too short notice to leave it until the group next meet.

Well it makes a change from dealing with plumbers and roofers. 😊

ixion Sat 01-Aug-26 08:39:01

I love the bi-colour agapanthus, NS.
Does it have a name?

NotSpaghetti Sat 01-Aug-26 08:00:47

Just thought I'd share these photos of flowers which survived our brief get-away.

The yellow ones (not so visible here) are Evening Primrose - which always make me think of really happy days when our children were very young.

Doodle Fri 31-Jul-26 21:38:03

Evening all. I’ve had a really busy two days and can hardly keep my eyes open
Done lots of walking (for me) and my muscles ache. I’m off to bed now. Have a good weekend all x

NfkDumpling Thu 30-Jul-26 22:20:45

How wonderful to hear from you Mamissimo and the photo of the gorgeous, huggable Spud. He's such a lovely boy, he will indeed break hearts. And a very Happy Anniversary in advance of the day. My chaotic mind will likely to have miss filed it by tomorrow.

And wonderful too that you may have found the right house Grammaretto. Fingers crossed that it really is The One. I hope it's nicely near and convenient for a good community and shops and doctors and all the other stuff we need.

I have DGS here to stay at present and it's well past his bedtime. I'd best chase him up!

And....

B E S T
W I S H E S
K A I M O A N A,
W E
M I S S
Y O U !. flowers flowers flowers

(That's the best I can do. Putting in the ** to get bold took out spaces)

Doodle Thu 30-Jul-26 22:15:17

Mamissimo how lovely to hear from you. Of course it was dear Kaimoana who remembered Spud’s birthday.
He’s a lovely looking chap. So pleased all is well for you and yours. Shame about poor Aoife but she had a good life with you. Doughnut sounds fun.
How we loved the tales of the bored and running beans.🤣
Grmmaretto I like the sound of this house, being able to live downstairs if necessary is a good thing. Having space for visitors too. Keeping everything crossed for you.

ixion Thu 30-Jul-26 20:35:47

Spud is going to break a few hearts throughout his life, Mamissimo - but you know that already! Lovely boy❤️.
Aoife had a loving home, despite her short life. Welcome, Doughnut!

Can we raise our hopes about your recent house viewing, Grammaretto?
Is it within your existing community? New or old? Doer-Upper or Do-able?
My DM 'downsized' from the crumbling Edwardian pile in her 80s.
Eyebrows were raised that the end result was a 4 bedroom/3 bathroom house.
But my goodness, the ease of keeping it clean (voice of experience), the reduction in maintenance costs and generally just modern environment meant that she could actually enjoy her home and surroundings without the worry about what was going to fall off next.

Still investigating ways to facilitate our communications with Kaimoana - if she can somehow read this, we send lots of love and hope the enforced house move is working in her favour xx

Grammaretto Thu 30-Jul-26 10:40:33

How good to hear from you Mamissimo
Such a great picture of dear little Spud. Wonderful news about losing his food intolerances.

Sorry to hear about Aoife 😢 and glad that you now have Doughnut.

Exciting trip planned! I hope you find Kaimoana. I didn't manage when I was out there. DD will be going out at Christmas too to see her brother.

I'm glad your DD is coping and has a good support system.

Happy days!

Mamissimo Thu 30-Jul-26 10:22:54

Good Morning 🙂 - how lovely that you dear Lobstars remember Spud's birthday! Can't believe he's 3 and totally thriving. He is as bright as his Granny a button, has all his teeth and has outgrown the milk intolerance and digestive issues that made his first year so tricky. DD2 is content now her family is complete.

Our little world is doing well - Mr M continues to be a good husband and in a few weeks we will celebrate our golden wedding.

DD1 is on an even keel again and has adapted well to both her daughters' neurodivergencies. It's been tough for her but we seem to have developed a family village to help and support with the practicalities of their unpredictable emotional needs.

DS gets married in a year's time and has been granted a nine month sabbatical by his employer which they will use as their honeymoon to go round the world - Canada, USA, Peru, New Zealand, Indonesia, Vietnam, Sri Lanka and then home.....they have both travelled a lot already so this trip is planned to fill in some gaps. He says they feel the need to do it while they're young enough and before having children. Mr M and I will join them in New Zealand for Christmas - so I might get to meet Kaimoana yet!

Very sadly Aoife Beagle passed away aged 3 from cancer - it was awful.......but some weeks later we were able to give a new home to a rescue golden retriever who is known as Doughnut.

The bored beans were great this year.........the running beans not so good..........and life goes on!

I read every week and think of you often x

NotSpaghetti Wed 29-Jul-26 22:38:35

Doodle your home must be just right for you.
The telling thing is that it felt right for you immediately.
So pleased you are happy there.
It's hard if you have to talk yourself into things.

I hope Kaimoana is OK. I hope her move is to somewhere that she will settle into easily.
I have been thinking about her recently and wondering if she is keeping warm.