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Doodle Sun 03-May-26 19:56:19

Yes another new thread. A gentle chat for old friends and new

Doodle Sun 30-Aug-26 19:39:17

Love the tea set Grammaretto how pleasant it sounds sitting there chatting to others (apart from the unruly children)
Lots of lovely history with your home. You’ll miss it but I do so hope your new home makes you happy.

ixion had a lovely time with DS2. After our chat we looked at an old photo album. It was a bit emotional but son said “ didn’t dad have a lovely smile”. True he did.

Grammaretto Sun 30-Aug-26 08:56:12

Thankyou dear Lobstars. I don't usually "do" decoration on pottery as I prefer the effect of the fire and glaze reactions i make a terrible mess

It's pouring down here now so I bet there won't be so many visitors to my pottery and jumble sale.

A woman who came yesterday bought my ancient butter churn -the small glass kind with paddle. She thought her forest school children would have great fun making butter.
She's the girlfriend of my hairdresser and said he's never told her I was a potter. What do they talk about 😄😂🤣

To be fair he didn't tell me she was a forest school teacher. Her son is keen on history and metal detecting . Several people asked me about my collection of curling stones and old bricks!
I think I will leave them with the house, as they were found near here. The 19th century owner, paper mill owner, had a curling pond where DS and DH found the stones in the boggy remains, long ago.
Houses have been built on that land now.

I'm waiting for my friend to come to breakfast. I've made much too much porridge!

NotSpaghetti Sun 30-Aug-26 01:56:30

What a lovely set Grammaretto
I hope they have years of pleasure from them.

ixion Sat 29-Aug-26 21:28:48

I thought you'd be too exhausted to drop in tonight, Grammaretto, but so pleased it went well.
Hopefully, the rest of the weekend will be as successful- ah, but you don't have a Bank Holiday on Monday, do you?🤔
Good news about your sales! May we see some of the teapots you have left?

I hope your afternoon went well with DS2, Doodle. Quiet contemplation🌻
We were in the middle of our Strength and Balance class when our cloudburst hit.
There were mutterings that we might have to extend the misery session til the rain moved on.

Luckily, 'twas not to be.

Grammaretto Sat 29-Aug-26 20:10:55

That sounds like a lovely day Doodle. Mine was also very nice and sociable. I spent quite a lot of it sitting outside my front door, drinking coffee, eating brownies and strawberries and chatting to visitors to the pottery and book sale.

Apart from a few slightly feral children why would you allow your kids to run into a pottery showroom waving water bottles about and giving eachother piggy backs?

More tomorrow and again next weekend.
A few books and treasures clutter left but it's barely scratched the surface.
I shall have to have clearance people in.

I have sold a surprising amount of pottery, especially teapots. I didn't think they'd be so popular as most people use teabags these days.

Someone had ordered a special blue and white set of cups and plates from me so I had finished that and was able to hand it over.

Doodle Sat 29-Aug-26 19:49:19

Went for lunch to a garden centre with friends today. Got marooned there while there was a deluge and even a bit of hail.
Church in the morning then going to hospice in the afternoon with DS2 .
Have a good bank holiday weekend all

Doodle Sat 29-Aug-26 09:16:08

Good luck with the open studio weekend Grammaretto. Hope your back isn’t too bad today.
Twee is fine ixion. I’m a great fan of fairy lights.

Gooseberries 🤔 because the give you goosebumps if they’re a bit tart ?

ixion Fri 28-Aug-26 21:58:50

I think you will need a potager, Grammaretto. Do you have a friend with a pneumatic drill?
And a greenhouse - is there one? If space is an issue, you could have one of those 'lean-to' types against your garage wall.
#fullofgoodideas.
I shall 🤐🤐 henceforth.

I took a photo of my successful twinkly lights.
Not posting as they look, er, twee by night.

Grammaretto Fri 28-Aug-26 20:56:09

Yes Doodle. I had thought of that and could make it bloom.
I have my df from the North staying with me and we harvested veg from my garden for our dinner. Broad beans, potatoes and gooseberries.
I wonder why they are called gooseberries?

How are the Lobstars?

Doodle Thu 27-Aug-26 18:58:51

Perhaps you could get some raised beds put in the garden so that you can have some plants at an easy height and have a bit more greenery. After your current garden I expect you’ll find that difficult for a bit.

Grammaretto Wed 26-Aug-26 22:11:32

Yes all those things Doodle 😍
A short walk to the bus stop. A slight incline, the garden is small but flat. Both front and back gardens are almost entirely gravel or concrete slabs. I find this ugly but low maintenance.
There's a garage which could be used for some temporary storage I guess.
I'm still trying to work out what I will keep.

Doodle Wed 26-Aug-26 21:31:15

Grammaretto Im pleased for you. I hope it will be a home where you’re happy and safe. Wow lots to do now.
Is this the one that’s 10 minutes from town and from a bus stop? Here do the busses go?
Is it on the flat i.e. will you be able to walk places from there.
How big is the garden? Will it give you scope to plan something that you can sit out in. Ooh I realise I’m quite excited. 🤣
Notspaghetti when DH and I moved here we had a storage unit for two years until we finally managed to either house or dispose of everything in it.
I’ve been to an art exhibition today. Interesting and very different pieces.

NotSpaghetti Wed 26-Aug-26 18:05:25

Oh Grammaretto I'm very pleased for you but know this must be stomach churning too...
I was supposed to be taking stock of my already-made pieces and got involved in trying to sort out silks and wools I'd dumped about the "studio" upstairs... then I renewed the moth killing protection... went to find a photo for someone interested in a wall hanging, couldn't find my memory stick of (expensive) professional photos and the sheer amount of STUFF up there was totally overwhelming.

I know you have been at this sorting for a while now but I couldn't get into the study for huge boxes of yarn I'd left in the doorway whilst I searched for the right colour purple!

I am in awe of those of you who have had really stuffed busy homes and have managed to move.

Well done Grammaretto for getting this far.
Maybe having a clock ticking is motivating.

Grammaretto Wed 26-Aug-26 17:12:33

Hoping for warmer, cheaper and more manageable but sitting out here drinking tea in the afternoon sun I hope it's the right thing to do.
I shall crack open the fizz tomorrow night when my friend from the north is here.

ixion Wed 26-Aug-26 15:55:15

Oh wow. Gosh. Crumbs.
Well done- an exciting future awaits!
🍾💐

Grammaretto Wed 26-Aug-26 15:24:50

My offer has been accepted so now to seriously declutter before mid October.

I can see I'll have to have a house clearance team.
I'm a bit stunned.

Doodle Tue 25-Aug-26 19:53:23

Notspaghetti i just caught the words pour vodka over ice cream and thought wow I’ve never done that. It is now on my to do list, 🤣
NFK good advice for Grammaretto
I have managed to have a few “conversations” with Kaimoana on messenger. She records her bit and I reply. What a beautiful voice our friend has and it’s lovely to hear her chuckle.
I’ve been out for lunch today with DH’s best friend and his wife. Very nice but made me feel sad DH not being there too.

NotSpaghetti Tue 25-Aug-26 14:34:49

Ours is a battle to keep them NfkDumpling I honestly don't think you can have too many.

They are lovely baked with a lump of stilton on them as a starter but I confess to loving them with just cream or thick yogurt.
Good with a plate of cheese and crackers.
They make a good stiff jam too.
Fig (and whatever) chutney.
Drop in a jar with some vodka and pour over ice cream.
Cut some into an almond frangipane sort of tart.
Bake them in chunks in cake batter...
Put them in tagines/ middle eastern dishes (and curry) where you might have put dates or apricots..

NfkDumpling Tue 25-Aug-26 09:49:09

Good morning

NotSpag - what do you do with all your figs? I have a young tree against our south facing wall. I've given away a lot, eaten too many and there are only little ones left on now which the wildlife can have. I've not watered it all all in the drought and it's growing in rubble and subsoil. I dread to think how big it will get if the weather is better and it gets watered. I already pruned it drastically last year after four years in situ. I fear it was a mistake buy!

It makes me think Grammaretto that the house you like with a north facing garden may not be such a bad thing. I know you've had rain when we've been in drought but it's often reversed and my north facing bits of garden have done well this year and my shady, ferny nook has been well used I'm now looking out for fairy lights for it or /and a little floating solar fountain for the large pot with the marsh marigold in - ixon, I know you have good taste so they must be appropriate. As long as there's a sunny sheltered corner somewhere to entice you outside, and another spot to watch the sunsets with a glass in hand, it can be made to work.

I know my DC will say "twee and tacky" too. I sometimes feel I'm stuck between memories of a critical (and jealous) mother and my too honest offspring! But at least they do say when they approve. The strange thing is that 99% of the time they all agree - so that implies they must communicate, discuss, and, I rather think, gang up on me.

NotSpaghetti Tue 25-Aug-26 00:13:03

Doodle I always wanted a mulberry... but we had a lovely plum harvest from my mother-in-law's trees this year.

Mulberry trees however take up a lot of space and I'd surely lose most of the fruit to birds.
I say this with some sadness as a squirrel has unwrapped and eaten about two thirds of four figs. I have been round the others with another layer of tinfoil!.... 😠

Doodle Mon 24-Aug-26 20:31:41

Notspaghetti my mum was lovely too. The centre of the larger family including aunts and uncles. Everyone came to our house. Mum was a great cook and liked to feed people.
Grammaretto perhaps you should keep a list of things you’d like to do in your new home. Like planting the plum tree. Might help you when your looking to visualise wha t you’re after,
I had a lovely morning at a friends very beautiful 1930s house. Very homely and comfortable. Great garden too. So nice to just sit and chat.

ixion Mon 24-Aug-26 19:18:47

No hairshirts allowed here, Grammaretto.
Either that, or we some of us run the risk of being a Woe Is Me Greek tragedy chorus line.
My DM always 'did her best', that I know. We try the same for our children, but, hey ho, it is sometimes deemed 'not good enough'. Been there, worn the t-shirt.

In homage to her wartime evacuation to the Somerset levels, my DM used to keep me in trugs throughout her life. Beautiful willow woven, I now see they have diversified into coffin making. 🤔
If only I'd kept those Laura Ashley long ditsy frocks.

One's children can be harsh critics, can't they?
I resurrected a box of reduced price solar fairy lights which were an impulse buy in the sales ages ago. Very fine ones (100😳) on a clear wire.
I spent ages weaving them randomly through a trellis of honeysuckle against an outhouse wall.
Despite my assertion that I could enjoy the effect from the kitchen sink, the results were less than positive from DCs. Twee, tacky, really? whatever with eye roll.

Funny how we spend all our motherhood being positive to their plans and aspirations but it is never automatically reciprocated?

How did the re-viewing of the house go today?

Grammaretto Mon 24-Aug-26 11:46:23

I'm glad that my trug evoked visions of floatie dresses and sweet smelling flowers.
I do use it when I am filling wee vases for the tables each Saturday at the Open House cafe.

However, I am usually wearing squeaky crocs as I wade through wet grass.

I made jam with the plums , gave lots away and still have enough to give me a sore tummy if I don't stop popping them into my mouth when I pass the bowl. I shall miss my plum tree but perhaps I will plant another.

My DD would love a mum like yours NotSpaghetti. I am a constant disappointment. Sometimes I wish I lived nearer and could help out but she wouldn't like that either. Can't win.

I'm writing this on my laptop as my phone keeps allowing nasty popups which remove my posts. I hope Gransnet can fix the problem.

NotSpaghetti Sun 23-Aug-26 22:21:50

My father had a trug and often could be seen filling it with beautiful roses.
A trug always makes me think of him.

He made fabulous flower displays for the house.
One in the hall pretty much always and one in the dining room and/or the sitting room quite often.

At Christmas time we would have lots of them... involving holly and such like - and he'd make a big wreath for the front door. He was a naturally creative soul.

Both of my parents worked really hard - mum was sewing all the time and really "looked after" people - anyone and everyone. There was no discrimination in my home growing up.
I sometimes think I don't say enough about my mum.
I was cross with her a lot as a young woman. She always wanted to help and I (like a toddler) wanted to do (nearly) everything myself.

I know I was lucky. 🙏

Doodle Sun 23-Aug-26 20:00:06

Grammaretto that is lovely. What a wonderful gift.
I have never had a trug but always fancied one. I love the idea of walking round the garden in my long flowing dress and bonnet and cutting flowers for the hall display. As you can tell I love period drama and have a vivid imagination. 🤣🤣
Do you do anything with your plums? Jam or something or just eat them as they are.
Church this morning and a nice chat over coffee after. Must have an early night tonight I’m out early with friends