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Doodle Sun 03-May-26 19:56:19

Yes another new thread. A gentle chat for old friends and new

Doodle Mon 11-May-26 19:45:41

Grammaretto Hope today went as well as it could.
I’ve been to a funeral this morning of one of our older members of the congregation. So sad that sometimes you only learn what interesting lives people have led at funeral services.
NN I love the description of your greenhouse as a giant meccano set. 🤣
How lovely of you to help out with that little man. I bet he enjoys his time with you.
Jan I hope your husbands treatment helps. Good he has someone to chat to in the journey.
Hearsay I remember the old police boxes (Tardis style) and my mum telling me if ever I had any trouble to go and phone the policeman.

Kaimoana I’m another that misses your lovely chats and funny stories. Sending love and hugs.

Naughtyneine Mon 11-May-26 16:24:45

THINKING OF YOU TODAY GRAMMARETTO AND HOPING IT GOES AS WELL AS IT CAN. I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHERE THE WEEK HAS GONE

DF IS DOWN FOR 9 DAYS. DH SAYS SHE IS THE ONLY PERSON HE KNOWS WHO HAS AT LEAST A WEEKS ALL INCLUSIVE ONCE A MONTH.

WE HAVEN'T BEEN GALLIVANTING AS MUCH THIS TIME THOUGH BASICALLY AS I HAVE BEEN IN A LOT OF DISCOMFORT FROM TENDONITIS AND SCIATIC PAIN
BOTH WERE POSSIBLE COMPLICATIONS FROM THE OP AND I'M HOPING THEY WILL SETTLE WITH TIME

I HAVE GARDENED THOUGH AND DF WHO HAS NO INTEREST IN GARDENING AT ALL HAS BEEN INSPIRED TO PLANT UP A CONTAINER, WHETHER IT ACTUALLY HAPPENS IS ANOTHER MATTER.

I NEED MY HANDS TYING BEHIND MY BACK IF I AM EVEN IN THE VICINITY OF PLANTS FOR SALE BUT I NOW HAVE THE BARGAIN GREENHOUSE ERECTED ( MALE TESTOSTERONE WAS ABOUNDING YESTERDAY AS 3 MEN JUGGLED WITH A GIANT MECCANO SET) SO I NOW HAVE THE PERFECT EXCUSE TO BUY MORE.

JAN GOOD NEWS THAT THE HOSPITAL TRIPS ARE GOING WELL AND FINGERS CROSSED THE TREATMENT IS WORKING.

A LOT OF THE RED PHONE BOXES IN RURAL AREAS AROUND HERE ARE NOW LITTLE BOOK SWAPS ( OR HOLD DEFIBRILLATORS) ITS LOVELY TO SEE THEM BEING USED STILL

HELLO HEARSAY AND JANET.

DDOG 2 IS HAVING A NEW TREATMENT TOMORROW AS THE FIRST ONE IS NO LONGER WORKING, SHE IS STILL EATING AND HAPPY SO WE WILL STILL KEEP FIGHTING THE FIGHT AND GIVE HER AS LONG AS WE CAN.

I HAD MY CLOSING MEETING WITH MY LITTLE FAMILY IN FRIDAY, IT MEANS I NO LONGER SUPPORT THEM VIA THE CHARITY BUT HAVE THE OPTION TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH THEM WHICH OF COURSE I WILL.

WE HAVE TAKEN THE LITTLE BOY WHO DIVIDES HIS TIME BETWEEN HIS DAD ( NOT THE FATHER OF THE 2 GIRLS) AND HIS MUM. HE IS PROBABLY ON THE SPECTRUM BUT ALSO JUST WANTS ATTENTION, HIS DAD SPENDS A LOT OF HIS TIME PLAYING VIDEO GAMES AND HIS MUM IS OBVIOUSLY BUSY WITH A 16 MONTH AND A 5 MONTH OLD.

NEEDLESS TO SAY HE PLAYS UP SO WE'VE BEEN TAKING HIM OUT FOR A COUPLE OF HOURS WHEN HE IS WITH HIS MUM (EVERY OTHER WEEKEND).

YESTERDAY THE LAMBS WERE BEING MOVED FROM THE BARN TO THE FIELD BESIDE US AND HE LOVED HELPING TO SHEPHERD THEM OVER THE RIVER VIA A LITTLE BRIDGE.

BLESS HIM, HE WONT KNOW IT BUT HE IS FILLING A GAP IN MY LIFE TOO. IT STILL CATCHES ME OFF GUARD NOW AND AGAIN.

Jan16 Mon 11-May-26 15:19:56

Hello All. Sorry to be so vague and slow at answering. No idea why I dont get round to doing things nowadays! Think Im losing it - musnt joke! ixion for asking about my DH. Yes hes fine and quite honestly I think he is enjoying his trips to hospital! So far he has been lucky in that hes been the only person in the hospital car/taxi and my husband loves to talk! Sure the drivers had enough well before they get home! Whether the treatment is working who knows?!
KaiomanaNot sure you will be able to read this but sending you all my love. I cannot imagine what it must be like to be unable to see properly. If you would rather I typed in capitals please tell me. xx

ixion Mon 11-May-26 14:44:33

Thinking of you and your family on this most difficult day, Grammaretto 🕯️ x

Grammaretto Mon 11-May-26 12:07:52

I remember a holiday camping in a field near Oxford . The caretaker of the field were a couple with 11 children. One of the 11 would be positioned near the phone box outside their 3 bedroomed cottage to take bookings for the "campsite".
They even had a pony we could ride in the next field.

NotSpaghetti Mon 11-May-26 11:06:39

Hello Hearsay
I think the phone box was important for lots of us in the days when having a phone in our homes was too expensive for most ordinary people.
It was very exciting when we got a phone line inside our home, that's certain.

Hearsay Mon 11-May-26 10:44:45

Have just found this thread interesting posts about old red phone boxes . For long while when we got married never had one . So they were vital part of the day to day life for most people.

NotSpaghetti Sun 10-May-26 23:52:04

Hello Janetashbolt
Welcome

NotSpaghetti Sun 10-May-26 23:51:12

Oh Doodle, My husband was once trying to negotiate a piece of work with someone and if he was busy in the study upstairs I'd run out to answer it to give him time to get downstairs and out, and I'd say, "Just hold the line please, Jeremy (or whoever) and I'll just find him for you" - by then he might be rushing out with notes and a pen having been alerted by me shouting "phone, phone" as I ran out

It was quite the highlight of the day for our children, and they still talk about it sometimes

EE has not called me back today by the way. Grrrr!

Doodle Sun 10-May-26 22:14:28

I remember using the phone box when we were in holiday so I could phone my mum and see how she was. DH would stand outside with our two dogs who weren’t happy that I was somewhere they couldn’t get in to. The yapping sometimes overpowered the conversation.
Grammaretto i Hope all goes as well as it can for your BIL funeral. I expect it will be quite sad. Thinking of you.
Notspaghetti what a wonderful tale. That made me laugh.

Grammaretto Sun 10-May-26 20:13:05

Hello Janet. Are you joining us Lobstars?
If so you are welcome.
Sorry you had to clear all those cuttings yourself. That wouldn't be my favourite job.

I've left a lot of my lawn uncut because I like a meadow and am excited to see what grows in the grass.
Some simple red tulips have appeared among the bluebells!

Janetashbolt Sun 10-May-26 13:48:11

I live in a council house and they own the front garden. They are responsible for cutting the grass they have only just done it, left all the cuttings, I went over it to clear all that, 6 bin liners, but it looks so much neater

Grammaretto Sun 10-May-26 09:26:27

Aw that sounds so romantic NotSpag !
Having the phone box just outside the house sounds pretty perfect too although I would have been anxious in an emergency.
I remember the queues outside and opening the door and begging them to be quick!
Things have improved in some respects.

Foraging was good but rather cold despite being wrapped up. We reached some woods where the grass was the greenest I've ever seen. We then came across a marshland covered with samphire but it was too small to harvest just enough to have crunchy, salty bites.
The 4 children spent the whole time on the rocky shore, appearing occasionally to show off their finds, including some amber.

I bought a grow bag yesterday to transplant some lettuce seedlings. I can't get used to the fact that I may not be in this house much longer.

My NZ son has just wished me a happy mother's day 😂. Isn't that lovely 😍. I don't mind having two!

I hope your family remembered you Kaimoana and I am wishing you the same.

Tomorrow is DBiL's funeral. It's going to be very sad.

NotSpaghetti Sun 10-May-26 01:35:38

Grammaretto, we once lived in a house with a phone box outside. It was on a lane and we would often take a mug of tea out there when making phone calls.

Sometimes, in the winter, if we were waiting for a call back from someone we would tell them to ring it for a long time - and we would go back inside and open the huge sash window in the sitting room so that we could hear it. Then we'd stay near the window with our coat on ready to rush outside!

Three of our babies were born in that little cottage and that's how we rang the midwife - until we coild afford a landline

I have fond memories of phone boxes actually. The truly rural ones weren't the smelly sort you found in some towns and cities - and some had their own phone books in them too. Before we were married we spent a summer when I was working in a seasonal type seaside restaurant and after my long shift I'd ring my now husband who was working elsewhere and who would have walked a mile to "his" phone box and waited patiently for me to call.
There was often someone else using it (or wanting to use it). I remember the feeling of being so close when just holding the phone to my ear. Nothing needed to be said.
❤️
I do realise I am very lucky to still have him.

Doodle Sat 09-May-26 21:31:07

I wish you luck with EE Notspaghetti they kept me hanging around for weeks paying high charges while they set up my new cheaper contract then suddenly sent me a message. Can’t connect you return all the equipment we’ve sent you now.

Hope your husbands appointment comes through soon. Hard getting older isn’t it.
Grammaretto i miss my landline but didn’t actually use it much. It was good as backup though. Hope the foraging went well. Did you have anything tasty to eat.
Envy you a day in the beach. Mine was spent in shops. Not the same

Grammaretto Sat 09-May-26 08:46:54

I miss my landline too. 😕
It was always in the same place and if I lost my mobile frequently I could call it.

Bother! I hope your connection is improved. NotSpaghetti

As you say Kaimoana has none.

When we were first married we had no phone and made calls from the phone box including to the hospital when I was in labour!

I have seen the house photos now and will help to write a blurb. I've ordered another survey and informed music man of what's going on.

Leaving it all to head off to the beach today with the foragers and a picnic. Wish the weather was warm and sunny but it's not.

Good luck your team Ixion I think it's my brother's team too but maybe not.
DS3 supports Everton for some reason known to him as do his family.

NotSpaghetti Sat 09-May-26 07:33:48

I'm expecting a call back today to discuss what EE calls "extenders" but which AI tells me is actually a mesh system, Doodle

If I had the landline still it wouldn't feel so bad as I'd at least hear it ringing even if I couldn't get to it!
I keep reminding myself that it wasn't that long ago that we had no convenient phones at all... and of course Kaimoana is still without one....

Hugs Kaimoana. Thinking of you and hoping you are keeping warm as it must be cooling now over your side of the globe.

We have another family birthday today which I'm looking forward to but there is such a lot to do before we head off - and my husband is waiting for a hospital appointment at ENT so isn't sleeping well and is regularly very tired.
We were once such a lively busy couple and he, in particular SO full of the joys of living. I wish I could wave a magic wand and give him back his energy and bounce.
*Maybe it's time to

Doodle Fri 08-May-26 22:06:26

Ixion i wouldn’t trust those llamas not to bite me. Nice Charlie the camel was much more friendly.
Sorry our team is flagging. We might be better sending the Argy’s llama to play. Glad you didn’t suffer from your covid jab.,mine was fine too.
Grammaretto I’m really tired too though I can’t claim any walking as an excuse. I also have my trips to the loo at night. Mostly I go straight back to sleep though.
Notspaghetti yes I think you’re right about the ballon dogs. The size of the one I saw Wednesday would need a rather large garden to accommodate it.
Sorry about your internet and broadband issues. Are they coming back to sort it out?
Jan glad I managed to find you in the desert and bring you back to us.
I went on our walk this morning then coffee and chat. To the hospice for lunch then more coffee and chat. What a busy life I lead,

ixion Fri 08-May-26 20:08:39

Doodle - you didn't kidnap the llamas from the Argy, did you?🤔

NotSpaghetti Fri 08-May-26 20:07:27

Hello Jan
🏜🌵🐫🐪
Phew!!!- Welcome Home!

Jan16 Fri 08-May-26 19:13:17

Hello All. I am still here but have to admit ti being lost in the desert for several days. Luckily I had water with me as it was very, very hot and my mobile wouldn’t work 😥. Kept trying to contact Jeeves for help - what has happened to Jeeves? Is he still with us or has he gone on to higher places?
Then suuddenly on the horizon a camel came into view with a little figure waving madly and yes it was our Doodle precariously perched on the camel coming to rescue me! I climbed onto Charlie the camel and we galloped onwards and home to Gransnet!
(Sorry folks think Ive lost it!)

NotSpaghetti Fri 08-May-26 17:40:57

Kaimoana we really love reading capitals just the same as lower case. ❤️ Are you keeping warm? It's presumably getting colder there?
It would be so nice to know you have something good around the corner to look forward to soon

Jan you are probably exhausted and we can't do anything to help. I wish Jeeves could take some of the strain and at least do some chauffeuring
Thinking of you

Ixion, my husband is a Tottenham fan. He has been watching (or, if not, at least closely following) other teams in an effort to will Tottenham a "way through ".
😬
His first act every day at the moment seems to be checking the football

NotSpaghetti Fri 08-May-26 17:29:26

Hello everyone!
Doodle your balloon dog was a Jeff Koons I assume. I think that represents his "entry level" works these days!
grin
www.jeffkoons.com/?hl=en-GB

Apparently the fancy "upmarket" ones are a special steel, precision engineered and coated in an especially shiny varnish of some sort.

I have been looking after a granddaughter, making a birthday cake, doing paperwork, sorting out some lovely old chairs that need new seats - 2 with ladderbacks (one our old "nursing chair")...
But the most annoying thing was opting for a new fibre system which is now fitted and nearly totally useless!
Now I have no landline, no internet except in the room next to or above where it comes in and still have almost no mobile phone signal unless I stand in the (open) porch.

I am going to have to order a "mesh" system if I want to use the study to do anything but read/write

I've signed up for some yoga and pilates classes in an attempt to get fitter but then discovered the waist band of my super-stretchy "gym leggings" just wants to roll down under my ample belly in a dangerously awkward and constricting way- so that's no good! I fitted into them ok last autumn (but did only really used them on the cross trainer and walking machines maybe twice or 3 times) ... and of course I'm at least a stone heavier now than I was then..
_And_ I'm expected to fold over and slide around now too
hmm

Grammaretto Fri 08-May-26 09:12:22

The walk was only about 4 miles yesterday and very gentle. The bulls were behind a fence and we didn't have to cross any streams on stepping stones.
I think the house business is keeping me exhausted. I slept well between trips to the loo.

My COVID jab was a week ago so I can't blame that. Are you ok after yours Ixion?

ixion Thu 07-May-26 20:45:32

You have never monopolised this thread *Grammaretto.
Those of us with less exciting lives tune in avidly to read of your busy-ness over the border.

We have been busy recently providing hands on support to Our Team, who are in imminent danger of going ⬇️ at the end of the ⚽️ season.
Hence our absence.

Called up to help rally the troops and provide moral or any other support our boys might need. The substitutes as well, that's a lot of chaps to attend to.
To think we only started out chopping up the oranges at half time ...

Your walk today looked lovely, how far was it? How many walkers joined you?
I hope your house and garden photos prompt lots of interest and a swift sale so you can secure that Fixer-Up pdq.

I enjoyed hearing about your sculpture park, Doodle. Beauty is certainly in the eye of the beholder. We often watch painting competitions and say 'Mrs A. would never have put that on display in the school hall, nor accepted it for a GCSE portfolio'.

Jan, how is Mr.J doing? I hope the travelling and the treatment plan is working out for you both. Thinking of you 🌻

Kaimoana, such sad news about your swiftly deteriorating eyesight. Surely time to be moving somewhere safer - and acceptable? I'm so sorry.

NN - that was scary about D🐕2. I remember Mr.I dosing one of our elderly cats, the special companion of DS1 as a small boy. He (the cat!) had a proper funny turn and I remember shrieking 'you've killed him😱', but he came too in a nano second and breathed again.
When does his treatment start?

Are you able to support your little family you told us about before your surgery? How is the baby?

Covid jab today as I now qualify for the spring booster.
Having forewarned everyone that I might be hors de combat for a few days, I sit here disgustingly fit and with no excuse for lounging about.

Well, not yet, anyway!

Thinking of everyone, as always. 🦞🦞🦞