This is the first year that it will just be DH and me all Xmas. It is a bit sad but not the end of the world. As long as my grandkids have a good time - and they will, because their parents will make sure they do - I am happy.
I am going to have minimal decorations as the kids aren't here, and no bloody turkey. Just our favourite stuff - probably lamb in some way, a really nice curry, chicken satay, Nutella cheesecake, Guinness punch... We haven't had alcohol around for the last two Xmases, as our new SiL turned out to be a recovered alcoholic. He says that it doesn't bother him if other people drink but it seems unkind to flaunt it in front of him. The punch is delicious, though, and the two of us will be able to guzzle it without shame.
I haven't bought any gifts yet but I am starting this week. Toys, baby clothes and books to buy online, vouchers for everyone else. I have given up on sending presents to the US, because it is such a hassle, so vouchers for them too.
Never have any idea what to give DH.
I don't think that I have ever managed to give him anything that he really loved. Our DD gave him a SatNav one year and I think that was his favourite gift. I have never managed to choose anything he liked as much. Our other DD bought a goat in his name for a poor village, which horrified him when he thought a goat would be delivered to our house. When he realised it was for charity, he thought it was a good idea. I have given him charity gifts too, mainly food and medicine for African kids. He grew up in Uganda and is always concerned about the plight of children there. (I recommend Good Gifts for charity gifts online.) However, I always feel the need to give him something personal too. Wish I could think of something!