Let it go, Nonnie please don't let it upset you.
When my DS died, (close to Christmas) opening the post was a bit of a minefield, never knew if it was going to be a condolence card or a Christmas one.
Then of course there were some from people who had written their cards early and didn't know that he had died 
I handed out cards to work colleagues as usual, some were quite embarrassed and said that they hadn't written one to me as they felt it was inappropriate.
Hexham - is it a nice place to retire to - cousin retiring there?
He never gives up being stupid.
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. Cross the name off your card list and don't give him/her another thought. They are not worth getting upset over. (((hugs))).