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Bukkie Thu 27-Aug-26 11:38:58

Our neighbours many years ago gave their child a name that doesn't go with their surname. His name sounds like a firm of solicitors. Although most people realise they still don't appear to and he is in his late 20s now. In fact they will laugh or comment on other names they think are silly. We have always felt it best to keep quiet.

rafichagran Thu 27-Aug-26 10:44:11

I would say nothing. I don't know why but Dexter keeps coming to mind. If it is name, I have heard it on other children.

NotSpaghetti Thu 27-Aug-26 10:40:42

Real and fiction.
Many have associations.
Admittedly calling one's son Adolf would not be good... not sure if it would be blocked in the UK, probably.
I seemto remember Cyanide was blocked.

Lathyrus3 Thu 27-Aug-26 10:28:57

David, John, Richard, Ian…….

They're real, not fiction.

NotSpaghetti Thu 27-Aug-26 01:36:41

Just been thinking...
Peter
Myra
Damien
Dexter
Lucius
Lilith

...probably lots of them.

NotSpaghetti Thu 27-Aug-26 01:30:38

I'm assuming it's the name of my friend's grandson. It's a nice name and suits him.
I don't even think of the fictional serial killer any more!
I'm sure you won't either in next to no time.

lovethepuppies Wed 26-Aug-26 23:17:28

I agree that the series will come and go and the name will stand on its own. I would leave it alone.

Lathyrus3 Wed 26-Aug-26 17:23:36

Theres so many films/programmes etc etc nowadays probably everyone’s name is used fir a baddie somewhere in the media.

The series you watch will come and go and nobody will remember anything about it.

Gracey Wed 26-Aug-26 17:20:49

Say nothing directly.

Maybe in casual conversation you could talk about the programme and say something like
" How evil is that .......... ( name) Isn't he a nasty piece of work? "

Some names by association lose their charm, but I think this is the only way you could bring their chosen name up.

The baby's name has to be their choice.

Sarnia Wed 26-Aug-26 17:19:54

Best not. It doesn't sound as if they know and if they do, then they aren't too bothered.
Perhaps he will have a nickname in the not too distant future.

Nitpick48 Wed 26-Aug-26 17:15:34

Should I tell my niece the name they have chosen for their new baby son is the nickname of a serial killer in a Netflix series? My son and husband say stay out of it…..help!!