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Aveline Fri 29-May-26 07:11:49

Is it just my DH who's not a fan of salads? I'm so fed up with it. In this hot weather I'm enjoying delicious crisp, nutty, juicy, tasty salads of all sorts. Often I'll have cold salmon as a base but use other things too. However, DH is always miserable if it's not hot and features lots of potatoes. Last night he made himself a big bowl of lentil soup despite the loaded salad nicoise I had for him. Are all men like this?

Tizliz Fri 29-May-26 11:08:31

Greyduster

My DH absolutely loved a salad. I hate them, no matter how carefully thought out and imaginative they are.

My DH likes a salad - with half a cos or iceberg lettuce. I only like a Glasgow salad (chips!)

Witzend Fri 29-May-26 11:13:09

Tizliz

Greyduster

My DH absolutely loved a salad. I hate them, no matter how carefully thought out and imaginative they are.

My DH likes a salad - with half a cos or iceberg lettuce. I only like a Glasgow salad (chips!)

😂😂!

watermeadow Fri 29-May-26 11:53:33

I thought this was a built-in natural difference between men and women. In my family the men liked meat, the women liked cake. The women read fiction, the men didn’t. Men grew vegetables, women grew flowers. Women like salads, men don’t.
Any man mad enough to want a cooked dinner in a heatwave must, of course, cook it himself and clear up afterwards.

Aveline Fri 29-May-26 11:55:53

At our local golf club there's a meal called Golfer's Salad - it's pie beans and chips!

Witzend Fri 29-May-26 12:02:12

watermeadow

I thought this was a built-in natural difference between men and women. In my family the men liked meat, the women liked cake. The women read fiction, the men didn’t. Men grew vegetables, women grew flowers. Women like salads, men don’t.
Any man mad enough to want a cooked dinner in a heatwave must, of course, cook it himself and clear up afterwards.

The other day I had earmarked a joint of pork (already defrosted, needed using up) for dinner, but was going to roast it early and have cold with salad/potato salad.

Dh said he’d really like it hot, with roast potatoes and gravy! So that’s what we had.

Witzend Fri 29-May-26 12:03:34

PS, he doesn’t cook, but invariably clears up the kitchen and loads the dishwasher, and to me the clearing up from a roast is definitely the worst bit!

JamesandJon33 Fri 29-May-26 12:25:17

My dad always called it ‘rabbit food’ and a meal wasn’t a meal without meat.
DH isn’t terribly keen on salad, but then he never had it as a child. They were definitely a meat and cake family.

Norah Fri 29-May-26 12:42:11

paddyann54 It helps that I like to cook.

I could spend all day split between cooking in the kitchen and working in the gardens. I love to cook as does my husband.

We eat salad(s) at lunch and dinner. I think enjoying salads may be down to making delicious dressings, which keep a few days, refrigerated. A large variety of vinegars, oils, herbs, juices is necessary, imo.

M0nica Fri 29-May-26 12:42:14

I can't be bothered with all these complicated salads with lots of ingredients that at the end of the day do not taste as nice as simple fresh vegetables chopped with a nice dressing.

A plain potato or rice salad or colslaw beside the fresh vegetables is nice, but more than that, the results, even when others make it never seems worth the effort.

Plevey08 Fri 29-May-26 12:48:37

I do know what you mean Aveline. My partner and me don't live together and I have got used to eating mostly salmon, salad, rice, chicken or potatoes. When he does come over he often wants a casserole, roasted veg etc. I inwardly groan as apart from not having the energy anymore I also have Coeliacs Disease which is a nightmare to navigate especially around gluten. He doesn't cook and lives on jacket potatoes or take outs. Can your DH cook? If so let him. There's so much expectation on women to do all the cooking. Our tastes and appetite change as we age. Glad I mostly live alone. Had my years cooking great meals for family.

Norah Fri 29-May-26 13:43:50

This is quite good, filling, easy to assemble.

www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/parsnip-spinach-artichoke-wild-rice-salad

J52 Fri 29-May-26 13:48:49

My DH is a salad fan and is more than happy to make them, especially when they include produce that he’s grown.

Jaxjacky Fri 29-May-26 14:29:48

MrJ has a token amount with the rest of the meal, decent dressing or not, as he did last night with bbq. I’m rather similar now after years of fighting a weight battle and eating loads of salads.
We all have likes and dislikes.

Aveline Fri 29-May-26 15:54:01

I really don't like dressings. I hate the way they make things slimy.

Oreo Fri 29-May-26 15:59:00

DP and other men in my extended family will eat very little salad and only if there’s other things with it, meat, fish, potatoes in some form or bread and butter😁

valdali Fri 29-May-26 16:26:22

DH used to think he didn't like salad.
When I was weekend commuting for my job & he had to cook for himself in the week, he quickly discovered he enjoys salad when weather's warm...
He will put mayonaisse all over a green salad though even if it's already dressed.

JaneJudge Fri 29-May-26 17:46:26

Mine has asked for salad tonight 🙈

Treebee Fri 29-May-26 19:09:37

DH doesn’t enjoy salads, but as others have said, he does like potato salad. And he has eaten and enjoyed feta cheese this week, a revelation for him!

Rocketstop2 Fri 29-May-26 19:18:26

My DH loves salad too, as do I ! I had friends in a village in Scotland who never ate salad as mostly everyone in that village thought of it as 'Just garnish' !!

Ladyleftfieldlover Fri 29-May-26 19:21:29

My mother was a brilliant cook but dad liked a salad every day except Sunday when he would eat a roast.

OH and I both like salads but as an accompaniment to something else. I particularly like rice salad.

Norah Fri 29-May-26 20:24:04

J52

My DH is a salad fan and is more than happy to make them, especially when they include produce that he’s grown.

Especially herbs we grow.

Spring and summer salad are delicious.

JackyB Fri 29-May-26 20:28:37

The German way is to eat a salad with every meal, usually in place of vegetables. I always have salad greens in the fridge but usually only DH eats them. He will get himself a salad while I'm cooking dinner.

Having said that however, I do enjoy a salad when I serve one up as a main dish, with tuna, cheese or ham. And I do make a mean potato salad, as befits the true German housewife I have become.

I am the one who prefers meat and cooked veg.

I would love to be able to serve up a warm pudding but that is definitely a no-no. Only ice cream, chocolate mousse or similar are considered proper desserts.

Primrose53 Fri 29-May-26 21:01:35

I cooked some salmon and we had that with loads of salad tonight. I love balsamic vinegar on salad stuff.

grandMattie Fri 29-May-26 22:04:40

My DH loved salad. Give him a plate of cold meat and salad and he’d be in heaven. (I love salad too)

Oreo Fri 29-May-26 23:13:52

Reading this has made me want a cheese salad sarnie so it’s goodnight from me as I now trot off to make one for a late supper 😋