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Things Ain't What They Used To Be

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Magenta8 Fri 22-May-26 12:48:01

I first became aware of it over 50 years ago. I remember going out and buying a bookcase. After about a week, it fell apart so I packed up all the bits and took it back to the shop. The man in the shop looked at me in disgust and said "You've been putting lots of books in it haven't you?" Apparently it was designed to be used with just a few books and ornaments.
Since then I have frequently encountered furniture, usually flat pack, that falls apart if you look at it in the wrong way.

I have seen numerous examples of things like outdoor door and gate fittings that bend, rust and fall apart, clay pots that are not frost proof. The plastic cutlery basket in my dishwasher has developed holes in the bottom because I will keep putting cutlery in it.

Everyday things are just not as sturdy as they should be anymore. I know there are small companies that still make durable items but understandably, they have to charge premium prices to be able to keep going.

The stitching on clothes often gives way, even in so called designer brands. Jeans which cost over £100 rip at the knee within a month.

I could go on and give many more examples. It makes me sad because far too many of these flimsy items will end up being thrown away and adding to the mountains of waste.

dragonfly46 Fri 22-May-26 12:53:51

I think you are unlucky I haven't experienced any of the things you mention.

keepingquiet Fri 22-May-26 13:01:08

I have things in my kitchen that have had continual use for well over forty years.

I often use the phrase, 'Buy cheap buy twice' when shopping.

Calendargirl Fri 22-May-26 13:02:30

Many items aren’t designed to ‘last’.

Years ago, you expected washing machines, irons, toasters, televisions….to last forever.

Not any more.

They are designed to pack up and buy new again, to keep the economy turning.

Cossy Fri 22-May-26 13:10:02

I’m with you OP, I don’t always buy cheap, yet have had lots of things “break” with simply normal use!

My favourite was the showerproof boots I wore in the rain which then fell apart, I did take them back and was told “ you’ve worn these in the rain!” 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jaxjacky Fri 22-May-26 14:14:58

We’ve not had this problem, she said tempting fate!

nanna8 Fri 22-May-26 14:16:02

I believe cars have a planned obsolescence too. They want you to spend money , basically. I had a washing machine ( top loader) for over 40 years and it saw me through 6 kids ( 4 of mine, 2 fostered) and I was sad when it finally gave up the ghost. I have replaced it with the same make . Same applies to our dishwasher . New Zealanders make things to last so look their way ! I won’t advertise on their behalf with the exact name but there aren’t that many.

Fallingstar Fri 22-May-26 15:28:17

Cossy

I’m with you OP, I don’t always buy cheap, yet have had lots of things “break” with simply normal use!

My favourite was the showerproof boots I wore in the rain which then fell apart, I did take them back and was told “ you’ve worn these in the rain!” 🤷🏻‍♀️

I get this.
Just bought nice new shower caddies from Argos for the shower downstairs and upstairs. However, the suction pads wouldn’t work, I tried everything but the caddies kept falling off, a neighbour who felt he was adept at this kind of thing tried to fix them, I thought he had succeeded but the blooming things fell off in the night and gave me a dreadful fright.
On reviews I could see that I was not alone with this complaint, so at £12 each I decided was worth taking them back.
The person I dealt with looked at the caddies then said to me ‘you must have the wrong tiles in your shower cubicle.
I did ask what the right tiles were like, not out of curiosity but because I was becoming irritated. The young man just shrugged then put the refund through.

petra Fri 22-May-26 15:39:23

Calendargirl

Many items aren’t designed to ‘last’.

Years ago, you expected washing machines, irons, toasters, televisions….to last forever.

Not any more.

They are designed to pack up and buy new again, to keep the economy turning.

I was a demonstrator for Hoover in the 70s
All washing machines / dishwashers were built to last 6 years.
Everything after that was a bonus.
The problem people have when washing machines go wrong is that they think they are complicated: they’re not, not if you have a little bit of ill have a go at that

keepingquiet Fri 22-May-26 15:40:54

Cossy

I’m with you OP, I don’t always buy cheap, yet have had lots of things “break” with simply normal use!

My favourite was the showerproof boots I wore in the rain which then fell apart, I did take them back and was told “ you’ve worn these in the rain!” 🤷🏻‍♀️

There is a difference between showerproof and waterproof. You have to be careful with outdoor products like this, because showerproof does not stop water getting in, it just allows water to run off but still permeates the fabric.
I learned this at cost, so now always check the labels.

Sago Fri 22-May-26 17:25:28

My Aigle wellies did 18+ years, Dualit toaster still going 35 years ish, Le Creuset pans 43 years, I have a pair of evening shoes 25 years a couple of white shirts at least 25 years, NYDJ Jeans some are 15 years old. .

I could go on, I tend to buy well and look after things.

Fallingstar Fri 22-May-26 17:31:45

Sago

My Aigle wellies did 18+ years, Dualit toaster still going 35 years ish, Le Creuset pans 43 years, I have a pair of evening shoes 25 years a couple of white shirts at least 25 years, NYDJ Jeans some are 15 years old. .

I could go on, I tend to buy well and look after things.

Oh I have stuff like that too, some have lasted me 45+ years, but stuff we buy occasionally from high street chains tend to be flimsy and easily broken, if they even do what it is purported they will do.

butterandjam Fri 22-May-26 18:32:19

My sheepfarmer neighbour (Highlands) bought a new Landrover Discovery. It had one fault after another and finally he took it back to the dealer to make an official complaint.
Dealer sighs and clicks tongue;

"I can see the problem right away. You've been driving it off-road. "

midgey Fri 22-May-26 18:50:12

Ha ha! My nephew has just inherited a land rover that my father bought in 1949! Still going strong.

Aldom Fri 22-May-26 18:56:28

I bought my navy blue cashmere coat in 1976. It's still looking good.

Aldom Fri 22-May-26 19:02:59

Fallingstar the store assistant was correct. Suction pads will only stick on to shiny tiles. If your tiles are matte they won't stick. I once was about to buy a shower caddy in John Lewis but I read the instructions on the label and realised that I had the wrong type of tiles, so I didn't buy the item.

Fallingstar Fri 22-May-26 19:05:05

Aldom

Fallingstar the store assistant was correct. Suction pads will only stick on to shiny tiles. If your tiles are matte they won't stick. I once was about to buy a shower caddy in John Lewis but I read the instructions on the label and realised that I had the wrong type of tiles, so I didn't buy the item.

You are probs right but there was nothing on the label or in the description that warned the customer about this. I am a bit anal and read everything before buying.

Oldnproud Fri 22-May-26 19:41:09

Well our tiles are shiny, but our shower caddies still keep falling off- discovered one in the bottom of the bath this very morning!

Basgetti Sat 23-May-26 00:12:15

You need to buy your jeans somewhere else.

Grammaretto Sat 23-May-26 02:01:32

I don't buy many things these days but about 10 years ago my fridge developed a fault. I spoke on the phone to a repairer calling himself Mr Cool who asked how old it was and what make.

I tried to remember and finally said it had belonged to my mother who moved in with us in 1980 but the fridge wasn't new then so I wasn't sure. It was Ariston whose adverts said they go on and on.

Mr Cool just said. "Buy a new one". 😅
I did.

nanna8 Sat 23-May-26 02:14:52

We just had a log affect built in gas fire fixed for $750. Worth it because a new one costs $8,000 now. Ours was put in in 1993 so she’s going good, as they say.

Cumbrianmale56 Mon 25-May-26 17:38:32

Cars certainly don't break down and rust like they used to. I can remember my uncle buying a new Fiat in 1977 that he had to get rid of at 4 years old as it was rotten underneath and would cost a fortune to fix. Nowadays cars barely rust until they're over 10 years old and don't fail to start in cold weather or overheat in hot weather.

Grantanow Mon 25-May-26 17:49:02

Politicians aren't what they used to be either.

Oldnproud Mon 25-May-26 17:54:51

Grantanow

Politicians aren't what they used to be either.

😂
Maybe - or is it that there was no social media back then, and perhaps even the ordinary media were loath to tell us ordinary folk what shenanigans our 'betters' were suspected of? 🤔