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'Old Lady shops'

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Rocketstop2 Sat 02-May-26 19:02:42

I made myself laugh today as I saw something I liked in a leaflet for what I used to term 'An old lady shop' ! It kind of put me off, although I have sent for the clothing to try.
It got me thinking, even though we are older now, are there still shops you feel you might be too young to buy from? I aim this at all ages too, as we are all only a certain age in our own heads.
I can remember as a young girl wearing Marks and Spencer stuff that My Mum had bought and vowing 'When I'm grown up I shall NEVER shop at Marks and Spencer.' (I did !!)
So, anyone else??

ginny Sun 03-May-26 09:48:50

I don’t care where I buy from as long as. I feel good. Also I don’t take much note of where others buy.

Caleo Sun 03-May-26 09:40:24

I like for a shop to have an image---it save me the trouble of searching for what I want.

BonMarche is not only old lady it's also dowdy but I buy my nether garments there as BonMarche sizing is unequalled.

Patsy70 Sun 03-May-26 09:25:41

LucyAnna5

I bought some lightweight wide leg trousers from New Look yesterday, and wore them last night for drinks with friends in a pub garden. They have an elasticated waist……

I have a few pairs of wide legged, linen trousers with elasticated waists, which look very stylish with a loose top. A couple of pairs I’ve bought in Spain and will be looking for more when I’m there next week.

dragonfly46 Sun 03-May-26 09:14:54

I wear elaticated waistbands, of course I do. The point I was making was that you can also buy clothes which can look stylish from places like Roman and Damart.

polomint Sun 03-May-26 09:12:13

I agree with oreo. I think " old lady stuff" is in the head. As I said earlier , at what age are you an old lady. Who cares if someone thinks you are old because of the way you dress.

LucyAnna5 Sun 03-May-26 09:11:58

I bought some lightweight wide leg trousers from New Look yesterday, and wore them last night for drinks with friends in a pub garden. They have an elasticated waist……

kittylester Sun 03-May-26 09:05:25

I agree Aldom. For example, M&S joggers have elasticated waists that are completely flat.

Aldom Sun 03-May-26 09:00:16

dragonfly46

I think elasticated waists are far more aging than the brand!

Flat, smooth elasticated waistbands are equally as good as the stitched on waistbands. These are very different to the type of waistband where the wide elastic is threaded through the band. The crinkled finish on those is very unflattering, but not so with a flat waistband.

teabagwoman Sun 03-May-26 08:54:34

Well said Oreo.

dragonfly46 Sun 03-May-26 08:44:24

I agree Oreo.

Oreo Sun 03-May-26 08:31:06

If comfort for your feet matters then Skechers and Hotter boots, if comfort for tum and surrounding area matters then elastic waists, nobody knows as the waistband will be covered.
Also remember that nobody will grab you to investigate what label you’re wearing.
A lot of this angst about ‘old lady stuff’ is just in the head.

Oreo Sun 03-May-26 08:26:34

As a few posters have said already, it’s good to buy from wherever if you like the garment and it will suit you and your purpose.
Nothing is off limits to me.
I think for some people it’s the fear of getting older or appearing older that’s driving them.
You can find good items to wear that don’t look old fashioned from just about every source.

dragonfly46 Sun 03-May-26 07:57:13

I think elasticated waists are far more aging than the brand!

luluaugust Sun 03-May-26 07:37:55

I was given a pair of Chums jeans and found they fit well and are good quality. I had never heard of the company. I shall carry on wearing them.

teabagwoman Sun 03-May-26 07:14:50

I’ll buy from anywhere that sells clothes that actually fit me. In recent months my midriff bulge has expanded despite all my best efforts which doesn’t work well with small hips and bust.

vegansrock Sun 03-May-26 05:23:48

My favourite shop for all basics is Uniqlo. Jeans, T shirts, linen shirts, jackets , sweatshirts, joggers and knitwear. If I want something a bit more upmarket I’d look in Cos, Poetry, Sahara, Wrap,Toast - or those brands on Vinted. I like BAM for their bamboo yoga pants and tops. For occasionwear - I’d make it myself.

TheSunRisesInTheEast Sun 03-May-26 04:29:50

Good for you 😀. You obviously have your own sense of style and, like my mum always says, never going to have a grey wash and set and wear an elasticated flowery skirt with American Tan tights 😂🤣.

JamesandJon33 Sun 03-May-26 04:13:04

I suppose I am biased. I went into a Hotter shop, once. It was full of white haired ladies. Not that I ‘m not one. I walked straight out.
I like M&S trousers and jeans as they fit me well. But never elastic waisted. Most of my clothes are Seasalt, or Toast ( sale or eBay) . My shoes Birkenstock, Josef Siebel, or DMs. I shall be 82 at the end of this year. Not ready to give up and embrace old lady stuff just yet

TheSunRisesInTheEast Sun 03-May-26 03:10:25

Hotter is a shoe shop.

I dress for comfort these days, but always feel well turned out. Bon Marche has a varied selection of styles and reasonably priced. Their loyalty scheme gives good discounts via vouchers.

I occasionally buy in M & S, Peacocks, Asda & Tesco, we don't have a lot of choice in town and I don't internet shop.

Whatever you wear, you're not fully dressed without a smile 😀.

pably15 Sat 02-May-26 23:35:46

I've never heard of Hotter, but I buy all my trousers and tops from Bonmarche

MissAdventure Sat 02-May-26 23:34:55

Does anyone remember Ethel Austin?
I think it had branches elsewhere, and i loved the clothes.

monk08 Sat 02-May-26 23:32:08

Allira Bon Marche sell Dash wear.

MissAdventure Sat 02-May-26 23:07:30

Climbing a fence?!?
I don't think I'd trust a shewee.

Still, if Chums say its ok to use in the car, who are we to argue?
Never mind the fact that I haven't got a car...

Allira Sat 02-May-26 23:02:23

Well, better than climbing a fence .....

MissAdventure Sat 02-May-26 22:55:15

grin its a shewee with a lid. (I just happened to browse it.. (of course i wouldn't have if there was anything more suitable)