I am reading a book about the life in the late 18th/19th century.
Eavesdropping on Jane Austen's England Roy & Lesley Adkin, Abacus, 2013 Chapter 5 'Fashions and Filth' pp141-146
uite simply, regardless of sex or class. You went where you could. The streets were filthy with faeces and water courses were polluted (incuding streams peope used for drinking).
Alternatively,people retired up a uiet alley, or men just did it in public. In the home, women of the status of Jane Austen's famailies would have a commode in their bedroom. In large houses men would have a screened off area in the dining room, or sometimes just a pot in a pot cupboard that they would freely use during meal times and the male drinking sessions that might well follow.
Otherwise most houses would have an outside loo over a bicket or cesspit, which drained into a stream or had to be dug out and emptied regulalry. Generally referred to as the jericho, cerain house,
All told, forget any of our modern fear of everything to do with human excretion, our worries about cleanliness. In the period of Jane Austen, people simply went where they could when the need struck.
Bear in mind women then did not wear close crutched underwear and there was a reason for that. That did not come in until the late 19th century - and ueen Victoria did not approve.