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So many shops closing, so much online shopping

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Cossy Wed 12-Feb-25 12:40:11

kittylester

I don't necessarily think that people only buy cheap clothes on line.

I much prefer to order clothes on line and try them on at home. The postage equates to the petrol and car parking cost so any easy decision for me.

I completely agree, I shop regularly in M&S online for both clothes and shoes, and Next for clothes and presents.

Online doesn’t = cheap.

I also shop online at John Lewis and House of Fraser

kittylester Wed 12-Feb-25 12:36:19

My grandchildren (of the right age) love nothing more than a mooch round the shops and then a visit to a coffee shop or restaurant.

keepingquiet Wed 12-Feb-25 12:34:17

You can't have your cake and eat it.

I went into a DIY store recently to enquire about kitchen appliances.

He told me without any hint of irony that he uses an on-line store because it is much cheaper.

He said he goes into stores, finds what he likes and then goes to this on-line supplier which is not the same as the one that employs him.

Lemmings voting again. I wonder if he realises that people buying stuff from the store are keeping him in his job?

I'm beginning to think that people really enjoy punching themselves in the face. How long before they realise they are the ones that are hurting?

Rula Wed 12-Feb-25 12:19:29

I've always loathed shopping. Online has been a godsend to me.

But it's obvious that this has caused high streets to all but disappear. And it will disappear

My Gen Z grandsons would think it crazy to suggest having a look round the shops.

Jaxjacky Wed 12-Feb-25 12:07:47

Business rates and increasing energy costs haven’t helped shops, far fewer overheads online. I’ve shopped predominantly online for nearly ten years, but was never one for a days outing the shops.
In an ideal world Doodledog such centres could include community/satellite health hubs.

Elowen33 Wed 12-Feb-25 11:56:02

If there was a demand for high street stores they would not close. When a store closes people complain however if asked did they shop there most say no they prefer the vast choices of online shopping.

NotSpaghetti Wed 12-Feb-25 11:37:23

nanna8, maybe the days when shopping was a "leisure activity" have gone?

I don't enjoy shopping but i know other people did. I haven't enjoyed it since I was about 16 when I used to go into the city after school to mooch about.

Now I think it's great to try clothes and shoes on at home and just send back. I don't keep anything I don't want (except this week as it happens - a long sleeved undershirt/vest that I forgot about because I went down with a cold/flu).

I'd like a decent haberdashery store locally and an art shop but think I can whistle for those! Unfortunately outside of London I can't think where I'd even look.
Most independent stores can't afford to carry niche stock.

Sarnia Wed 12-Feb-25 11:30:05

The shopping mall in my local town has lost their flagship store. M&S closed just before Christmas and Trespass has quickly followed. A new development was built to include a leisure complex with shops and cafes. Although the leisure and café concerns are doing well not one of the shops has been taken and that's almost 2 years now.

Doodledog Wed 12-Feb-25 11:24:23

Septimia

Shopping habits have certainly changed.

What we need is to turn the upper floors of the shopping districts into nice homes and have bars, restaurants and independent retailers on the ground floor. These then open e.g. afternoons and evenings (noon - 10pm?) when the people living above have time to patronise them.

I agree with this.

Habits have changed because people prefer online shopping. Rather than try to turn back the tide, councils should be looking at ways to make the best of what is actually happening, not what a few people would prefer to see happen.

We need more homes, so opening flats above commercial premises would help with that. I would also like to see community hubs in various forms in ex-retail outlets - places where people of all ages can gather that don't involve spending money or drinking alcohol. They could be for education, leisure, hobbies, socialising, Arts - all sorts of things depending on what people in the area want.

Too many housing developments have no 'centre', so people don't get a chance to meet one another, which causes loneliness. Shopping used to be a reason to mingle with others, but as it's dropping out of favour I think that reason needs to be replicated. Pubs are struggling, too, so another way in which people got together is in decline. Community hubs could help to solve these problems, but would need funds and an ability to look forwards, not hark back to a time that has passed.

Calendargirl Wed 12-Feb-25 11:10:01

I live in a small market town.

I try and ‘shop local’ even if it’s a bit more expensive.

I bought a tin of Brasso this morning from our independent diy type shop, just looked online, could have got it 25p cheaper. No worries, it’s a jolly useful little shop.

Plus I recently bought cod liver oil from our health food shop, looked it up online, his was actually cheaper than the identical online stuff.

If we don’t support our local shops, there’ll just be nothing to go out for.

nanna8 Wed 12-Feb-25 10:41:53

I agree- I can’t be bothered sending things back so if none of my kids want it I just send it to an op shop. Waste of everyone’s time and money really but I suppose the charities benefit.

Dottydots Wed 12-Feb-25 10:36:07

I miss all the lovely big clothing stores we had. I could go in, try something on and within minutes I knew that it was or wasn't right for me. I could then either buy it or hand it back. Easy peasy. Buying online and then maybe returning an item is too much faffing about for me at my age.

Lovetopaint037 Wed 12-Feb-25 10:26:03

It’s maybe the chicken or the egg. The stores didn’t have much choice so you look online. Our big stores turned into Primark which is great but not what is wanted all the time. There is Next which can have some decent clothes but Monsoon closed down and Laura Ashley is long gone. M&S isn’t bad but the quality is varied. If you are up to a trip into central London for John Lewis you might be lucky or find some items ridiculously expensive. So how easy to look online for an idea of what is available. Have had some great buys.

Indigo8 Wed 12-Feb-25 10:17:15

Cheap clothes can be badly made using cheap fabric or mid to high end clothes bought relatively cheaply at a reduced price in a sale and everything in between.

Chocolatelovinggran Wed 12-Feb-25 10:16:44

nanna8, that is happening here, but innovative local authorities are following Septimia's model, turning large department stores into small retail spaces on the ground floor, with residential units above.
Hopefully, this will keep town centres alive.

Septimia Wed 12-Feb-25 10:07:51

Shopping habits have certainly changed.

What we need is to turn the upper floors of the shopping districts into nice homes and have bars, restaurants and independent retailers on the ground floor. These then open e.g. afternoons and evenings (noon - 10pm?) when the people living above have time to patronise them.

kittylester Wed 12-Feb-25 10:07:15

I don't necessarily think that people only buy cheap clothes on line.

I much prefer to order clothes on line and try them on at home. The postage equates to the petrol and car parking cost so any easy decision for me.

25Avalon Wed 12-Feb-25 10:00:46

We also have umpteen coffee shops and loads of charity shops. Even big stores have shut down.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 12-Feb-25 09:52:35

Whenever we have been in Australia, particularly Melbourne, I shopped in Country Road. There children’s wear used to be good quality.

Our DD was fascinated by the big clock on the wall in one of the Malls, I think it’s the one which had (or used to have) the high end Japanese department store.

Poppyred Wed 12-Feb-25 09:50:21

It’s the same here nanna8 it is a shame……

nanna8 Wed 12-Feb-25 09:42:10

I don’t know what it is like where you live but our lovely local shopping mall is not so lovely anymore. Nearly all the clothes shops have gone to be replaced with things like nail bars, dentists, hearing aid centres, computer game shops . There are still food shops of course and still big variety stores like Kmart but the little individual stores have closed. More and more shop for very cheap clothes online. I think it’s a shame.