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Short-term memory, absolutely appalling….

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Shinamae Sat 01-Feb-25 11:41:36

It has worried me for awhile now,the fact that I can remember what happened 20/30 years ago with absolute clarity but I cannot remember what happened the day before yesterday or sometimes even three or four hours ago..
I will be 72 next week….😳

ixion Mon 03-Feb-25 15:17:43

wibblywobblywobblebottom

It's called Alzheimers.

On what have you based this diagnosis?

crazyH Mon 03-Feb-25 15:35:44

Her username says it all šŸ˜‚

Crossstitchfan Mon 03-Feb-25 15:37:50

Iam64

Same - I’m 75 and so far decided I’m doing fine

I think most, if not all, of the people our age are the same. I know I am (79).
Don’t let it worry you.
I keep one of those ā€˜week to two pages’ A4 diaries on the kitchen worktop. All appts, birthdays, medicine collections etc go in there. It works for me.

Crossstitchfan Mon 03-Feb-25 15:38:58

My last message was in reply to Shinamae

sparkynan Mon 03-Feb-25 17:59:51

I was visiting a client who needs support with his daily living, I’d made him a mug of tea which had gone cold, I said to him ā€œdo you want me to heat it up in the tumble drier!!!!ā€ Luckily I realised what I’d said straight away, and he replied ā€œNo I’d rather you heat it up in the microwaveā€šŸ¤£šŸ¤£it made him have a good laugh.
I think I was just thinking of too many things at once.

Allygibb Mon 03-Feb-25 18:22:23

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sewandsew7 Mon 03-Feb-25 18:36:06

My best friend had early onset dementia in her 50s - believe me it’s so much more than age related forgetfulness. There were lots of other indicators. I am comforted that I have made it to 69 with just the odd lapse in the areas everyone else has already mentioned here. My hubby and I are both the same ……… we spend many a happy hour searching for list glasses, keys or trying to recall a persons name. We laugh about it most of the time but I do understand the concerns. This discussion is so helpful! We are all in it together! X 😊

sewandsew7 Mon 03-Feb-25 18:37:33

*lost not list

win Mon 03-Feb-25 18:54:56

We have permanent name badges at our Memory Cafe and carers group, I bought a badge machine, it is cheap and easy to make them.

Leanetta Mon 03-Feb-25 19:05:21

grin

Romola Mon 03-Feb-25 19:19:05

Tiley, I'm really shocked by your story. Thank you for the words of caution.
A dear friend suffers from short-term memory loss. It causes her a lot of anxiety. For instance, she will ask me several times during a visit, "Where's my phone?". She is still driving (!) but forgot to come to lunch with me a few weeks ago, although we had spoken the evening before.
But she remembers our schooldays clearly and was playing her violin in the local amateur orchestra until a few months ago. I dread losing her to dementia, but I think it is happening.

kittylester Mon 03-Feb-25 19:28:08

wibblywobblywobblebottom

It's called Alzheimers.

No it isn't.

Indiebee Mon 03-Feb-25 20:13:47

Kittylester - Perfect! šŸ‘

Allira Mon 03-Feb-25 20:15:42

kittylester

wibblywobblywobblebottom

It's called Alzheimers.

No it isn't.

Thank you kittylester

1summer Mon 03-Feb-25 20:27:24

My daughter is furious with me, A family member has recently had a baby, buying a gift this weekend I thought of a really good gift which I bought,
Showed my daughter yesterday and she said ā€œI told you Friday I had bought her thisā€. I was horrified completely forgot,
I can exchange gift but quite upset I had forgot!,

EEJit Mon 03-Feb-25 23:07:14

Are you on statins? I had the same problem quite a while ago. When i finally admitted to my doctor tuat I was having problems he changed my statins and all was well.

It happened again a few later we tried the swap to another brand, problem solved again. I'm having issues again so it's off to see the doc again.

This whole thing has happened over the last 25 years so it's not really an issue

annodomini Mon 03-Feb-25 23:43:25

What a reassuring thread this is. I thought I was unusual in having little lapses of memory - at 84 - and generally make the excuse that I was always absent-minded and if my mother was still with us (unsurprisingly, she isn't) she would confirm this.
Cheers!

HeavenLeigh Mon 03-Feb-25 23:46:45

So far I’m ok I’m 67 but my dad had Alzeimers : vascular dementia. I try not to think about it but I’m sure if I suddenly were finding that I had the start of short term memory loss I’d be making an appointment with my dr.

Goldieoldie15 Tue 04-Feb-25 10:50:44

Hard disk is full is the reason.

InTheCove Tue 04-Feb-25 12:36:05

I had the same problem. A friend recommended Lion's Mane, and my short term memory has improved very much. I take two 1 ml droppers each morning. Doesn't taste good, but well worth the temporary bad taste.

Jaxjacky Tue 04-Feb-25 12:43:20

wibblywobblywobblebottom

It's called Alzheimers.

Thank you Dr for your cognitive analysis deduced from the scientific evidence on this thread šŸ™„

Wishes Tue 04-Feb-25 12:59:17

Today I got up for work, DH popped his head in the bathroom just as I was about to get in the shower and told me it was Tuesday today.
I go to work Wednesday!

The evening before, I had also prepared my work clothes and lunch. confused

yogitree Tue 04-Feb-25 13:01:11

Out with the family for my 70th Birthday Lunch at the weekend, I said to my DIL (while discussing Films on Netflix) "Oh we watched a good one last night". She replied "What's it called?" - me after a pregnant pause, "I forget!!!" How embarrassing!

I did eventually remember after identifying Liam Neilsen was the main man, but right now? It's something to do with Saints and Sinners!

I have been forgetful my whole life, as my mother used to threaten to send me to "memory lessons" smile as a child, but my long term memory is great, compared to my DH's.

As someone already said, we're all in the same boat as we age.

flowers

Daddima Tue 04-Feb-25 13:04:35

HeavenLeigh

So far I’m ok I’m 67 but my dad had Alzeimers : vascular dementia. I try not to think about it but I’m sure if I suddenly were finding that I had the start of short term memory loss I’d be making an appointment with my dr.

Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia are two different things.

kittylester Tue 04-Feb-25 13:27:21

Dementia is the umbrella term.

Alzheimer's Disease is one form. There are over 400 different types.