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'End of life' songs - is yours on the list?

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MissInterpreted Wed 09-Oct-24 13:56:46

Marie Curie has published a top ten list of the songs people listen to in their last moments. Is yours among them? Can't say I'd want my last moments to be listening to any of them, but each to their own...
www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-13940649/The-ten-songs-chosen-dying-people-final-moments.html

NotAGran55 Thu 10-Oct-24 18:30:14

Eric Clapton’s 1991 Live RAH version of Knockin’ On Heavens Door.

pascal30 Thu 10-Oct-24 18:13:32

catd

The kids can choose what they like but as the curtains close it has to be Leonard Cohen dance me to the end of love

My favourite Leonard Cohen song Catd

We had Abide With Me for both my Dad and My DH as one of the music pieces

Mojack26 Thu 10-Oct-24 17:26:02

None

nanasam Thu 10-Oct-24 16:33:32

It's a choice between Who Wants to Live Forever? by Queen or Shine on You Crazy Diamond by Pink Floyd. Oh, and another Floyd one - Comfortably Numb. I'd like to die listening to one, then have the other two at my funeral.

MissAdventure Thu 10-Oct-24 15:08:01

Oh I absolutely love Sweet Thames Flow Softly. smile
Mt ex used to sing it to me...

Neilspurgeon0 Thu 10-Oct-24 15:05:43

Definitely none of those old dirges. “Sweet Thames Flow Softly” and “At the setting of the sun” will see me out fine.

MissAdventure Thu 10-Oct-24 15:02:03

What wonderful choices, pandapatch smile

The thing with music is that there's always more to discover.

Freebird, though, so fitting.

pandapatch Thu 10-Oct-24 14:51:29

MissAdventure

I'd like to slip away to 'Freebird' by Lynard Skynard'.
Considering how long it is, they could skip to the guitar part, if I look likely to go quickly.

Miss Adventure, we had Israel Kamakawiwo'ole, Somewhere over the Rainbow and Lynard Skynard Freebird at our son's funeral

LovesBach Thu 10-Oct-24 14:40:18

I've always liked Thank you for the days' by the Kinks.

Daddima Thu 10-Oct-24 14:37:08

M0nica

Hang on, this thread is not about music at funerals, it is about the music that we want played as we die, which is something entirely different.

Just what I was thinking! I think I’d just like to be listening to stuff I usually listen to, nothing deep and meaningful. I’d maybe like the last movement of Beethoven’s 9th, if I was going out with a bang!

grannybuy Thu 10-Oct-24 14:30:40

As my husband was dying , I sang ‘ Only You ‘ ( the Platters ).
At his funeral we played Eva Cassidy’s , ‘ I Know You By Heart’
Someone to Watch Over Me played by Chris Botti, and daughters chose Superbird ( Neil Sedaka ) as they remembered dancing with him to that when they were young.
My choices are a work in progress. They will definitely include a Morricone one, and possibly something of Karl Jenkins and considering Freddy Mercury singing The Great Pretender for exit. So many much loved pieces to choose from.

newnanny Thu 10-Oct-24 14:23:48

I've never heard of anyone picking 'Girls Just Want to Have Fun'. A very odd pick in my view. I want Einaudi and You'll Never Walk Alone.

catd Thu 10-Oct-24 14:15:37

The kids can choose what they like but as the curtains close it has to be Leonard Cohen dance me to the end of love

BlueSapphire Thu 10-Oct-24 14:09:09

Definitely not one of those.
Mine is Frank Sinatra singing 'Come Fly with Me'. Love travelling and love flying - the whole airport thing!

Dogeatdog Thu 10-Oct-24 13:57:33

True Colours - Cindy Lauper for me ,I think .

missdeke Thu 10-Oct-24 13:52:22

If I'd decided on a crematorium service instead of a direct cremation I would have had The Road to Hell on my way in, Eric Clapton playing throughout the service and at the end as my coffin was going through the curtains Baby You Can Light My Fire.

lilydily9 Thu 10-Oct-24 13:41:40

'As Time Goes By' would be my choice. Love that song and Casablanca is my favourite movie.

keepingquiet Thu 10-Oct-24 13:28:00

What a dreary list! Too much dying here... I enjoy the music of life!

I think I'd choose 'Celebration' by Earth Wind and Fire.

Casdon Thu 10-Oct-24 13:25:19

Drops of Jupiter - Train

Eddieslass Thu 10-Oct-24 13:19:19

The final music played at our friend’s crematorium service was Bring Me Sunshine which made everyone smile. I was rather taken aback though when I heard one elderly gent exclaim What do you think of it so far?!

heavenlyheath Thu 10-Oct-24 13:19:18

Halilujah by Lenard Cohen my husband died 34 years ago and I woul finally join him

heavenlyheath Thu 10-Oct-24 13:15:33

A friend of mine has chosen Time to say goodbye

icanhandthemback Thu 10-Oct-24 13:01:25

Good Lord, none of those. The Warsaw Concerto or Avenged Sevenfold is far more my style!

GrammaH Thu 10-Oct-24 12:56:57

Don't fancy any on the lust but as I'm not sure where I'm going, I'll go " Into the mystic " with Van Morrison. He's my favourite singer/songwriter and I find this song very soothing and very poignant.

SillyNanny321 Thu 10-Oct-24 12:53:06

Told my son if he does not play my favourite Status Quo track, Dont Waste My Time & end with the Doors When The Musics Over I'll come back & haunt him!