Perhaps it's because some (judgemental and stereotypical) people think that lower class people won't have gone to dance lessons or done anything cultural as a child. Or they WANT that to be the case
I remember one time I admitted to a mutual friend that I'd had ballet and tap classes as a child (we weren't even WC) but some woman who was competitive and used to try and one up me was upset and horrified . It really suprised me with how she got SO upset because she'd only had ballet lessons. People can be really insecure sometimes. Life is not a competition and I refuse to compete or engage in silly one upmanship but if I answer a question truthfully then I'm not responsible for someone else acting out because they can't handle the truth.
Why shouldnt AR have had dance lessons? Why can't she talk about it without people being upset? It's silly.
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