BlueBelle
Do you really think horrible, violent men have it stamped on their forehead *Jennifereccles’ many will come across as perfectly normal , and charismatic, just like rapists they don’t come with warnings, many an abuser is the cornerstone of the community looked on as a good person
The photo someone put on further up the thread shows a clean looking, smartly dressed young man he doesn’t have ‘violent abusive murderer’ written on his face he doesn’t look like a thug, why would any woman know how he would turn out we know nothing about him but it’s so easy to …
blame the woman yet again
Hear, hear BlueBelle.
I believe such men can appear quite ordinary and 'normal' - witness the comments made about such individuals after similar incidents by those who know them - "oh, he always seemed quite friendly and pleasant", etc, etc.
Unless there are big red flags waving in your face, how is any young woman expected to determine that a man has a huge fault-line in his personality.
I know when I was in my 20s I wasn't a very good judge of character, if a man was pleasant, friendly and 'nice', I took him at face value. How could I do otherwise, I didn't have the experience to be cautious and circumspect. That comes later.