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Daughter living with me after long term rela tionship

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Suzysticktail Wed 21-Feb-24 19:39:34

What do I do - at wits end - daughter has moved back - in late 40s - my place old - not much bigger than a large caravan - she has come from a huge north London house - with cellar - loft and a beautiful shed in the garden - lots of space. Lived with partner for 16 years - split - he wanted her out - she came to live with me - 2 half years ago - no job - alchoholic - given a car - won’t drive for obvious reason - won’t see a therapist- brother who is Aldo living with me I. A #mall annex hate each other - c@nt throw her out in the streets - - I am in my late 70s and s5ill work despite PMR - any opinions would be helpful - each discussion runs into a huge argument - no time or energy fir arguments as I have lived in my own for many years. Anyone that has any wise words would be good!

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Suzysticktail Wed 21-Feb-24 19:54:25

Daughter moved back

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keepingquiet Wed 21-Feb-24 20:46:51

Did your daughter ask to move back?
Did you make ground rules?
You are enabling her drinking and her lifestyle.
You are legally entitled to throw her out, and would get in touch with AgeUK and CAB to find out how you do this.
You are still working yourself? I don't know what PMR means but you are entitled to your own life.
Not clear if you say there is also another adult living there and you hate each other?
Sounds like a nightmare to me and I don't think you want my words wise or otherwise.
My opinion is you are being taken for a ride, but there is help out there if you try to get it- maybe start with your GP.

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