Doodledog
*The usual diatribe about transwomen.* No need to be rude.
There are transmen and non-binary people. Quite where they fit in to this "men are taking over everything philosopy" I have yet to discover. In fact they don't.
Well that depends on your perspective. Transmen are 'identifying' into maleness - the head of the patriarchy, and as such are clearly not choosing to fight for women. Non-binary people seem to be rejecting gender by accepting that it exists. How can one be 'non-binary' unless there is a binary to reject? Again, by opting out, non-binary people are actively rejecting what is female, (and male, obviously, but we are addressing how this impacts on women) so again, are not, by definition, supporting women.
Not only the trans agenda. If they support transpeople women are denigrated as misogynistic by some who say they aren't TERFs but have a similar agenda.. Those designated women but want to be men or are non-binary, well they are just ignored. Only those who agree are respected. Those who don't comply with the concept that men are taking over, simply don't count.
How do you know who other people respect? Or who is ignored? That is a ludicrous generalisation, with another ill-concealed dig ('some who say they aren't TERFs', is reminiscent of 'Brutus is an honourable man').
Speaking for myself, I respect those who are honest and say what they mean. Pretending that TWAW, and a refusal to recognise that this means that femaleness has been reduced to an option that anyone can take, and the things that make us women are irrelevancies, is neither honest nor meaningful.
A transperson of any persuasion who says 'I am trans and therefore a man/woman who would like to 'live as' a woman/man is honest and straightforward (insofar as that aspect of them is concerned, at least). Someone saying 'I am a woman, despite the fact that I have a penis, male gametes and a male physique, and anyone who refuses to join in my fantasy is phobic' is not.
Well first of all not all men are complicit or part of the patriarchy. There are even feminist men. This drawing of lines and insisting on absolutes isn't compatible with real life.
Even if transmen are identifying with the patriarchy I would consider that is their right and that is nothing to do with gender. Many natal women identify with the patriarchy (Margaret Thatcher for example).
As transmen and non-binary people exist the concept that transwomen only become trans in order to take over women's roles and functions is flawed. It is something which affects both sexes.
As for transmen being ignored, every time a post insists that the issue is solely to do with transwomen, transmen and non-binary people are ignored . This is a people issue.
I have no idea what the things that make us women are. I share some things with some women. I share some things with some natal women. I share some things with some transwomen.
As for what's in someone's pants. I have often been accused of obsessing about this. I really don't. I don't know what's in most people's and I don't want to know.
Few people examine what's inside most judge from external appearances and designate people man, or woman, or unknown, from that.