paddyann54, when our four kids were small, they played out with a local Irish four-child family. Their mother had left so dad was bringing them up. Every Christmas he'd bring us a huge tin of chocs - so we bought one for them. One day the (tiny) youngest suddenly said 'Am I allowed a sweet?' - well yes of course she was. Then, oddly, 'I know what they taste like now!'. I already knew that they strictly weren't allowed a snack (or even a drink, except water) after school, before dinner. But this was Boxing day afternoon. It turned out that the chocolates at their house were displayed in a large glass bowl - for adults only!