It is a year today since our lovely, kind and funny Phoenix died. I'm sure lots of you will remember her many irreverent threads.
Sadly, she wasn't a member of GN when she died but had been here from the beginning.
Maw, who is also sadly no longer a member, has been in touch with the lovely person who helped care for and is happy to pass on any messages of remembrance.
Personally, I am going to complain the my ex son in law is still hale and heart despite the spell she wrote.
I think of her often in the morning. Many years ago she started an indelicate thread about bowel problems. From this thread I learned that I have a rectocele and tips to deal with it. Saved me a lot of worry and angst as I realised it was not uncommon and manageable. Thank you Phoenix.
She was very brave, especially at the very end of her life. She and I had kept in touch over the years and she along with myself and others, were thrown off GN for a couple of weeks, entering what we called the Doghouse. I do see the others writing on GN which is great.
She was terminally ill at that time so it was not really "in the spirit" of GNHQ to do that but mentally she rose above it. A nicer kinder person one could not "meet". She had been dealt a few rough deals in life = RIP Rachel.
So many happy memories of Phoenix. Her wacky sense of humour was so uplifting, a caring friend and such a beautiful soul.
You have indeed said what many of us are feeling * Charley* thank you and kitty also for starting this thread to remember our dear friend. Maw will be so sad not being allowed to share her own tribute to Rachel.
GN is a sadder place without Phoenix. We always knew when a funny thread name appeared that Phoenix would be the instigator. Such wonderful humour. I miss her too a lovely person. Phoenix
I too hadn’t realised Maw wasn’t posting (Hope she still is somehow as we need people like her on GN )
I remember trying to dance wildly to pata pata on that sad day with tears streaming down my face for an inspirational woman I had never met but who had made me smile many times. RIP Phoenix.
It's hard to believe it's a year since phoenix left us.
I can't cook gammon without thinking of her curse, have to try to get the last bit of ointment out of a tube by swinging it round in circles and I remember all her very funny threads, posts and spells.
phoenix - you were a joy, it was a privilege to have 'known' you.