To the ones who say.... I haven't got a gift.
You have a special gift of motherhood or fatherhood! A great parent that inspires their children, is special.
Organizational skills, or running a household is a great skill in of itself.
Can cook something from nothing, people say .... Omg you should their roasties, or upside cake or whatever. Or I've never known anyone that can make a fishfinger sandwich taste amazing.
Can you sew and fix ... Great skill
See, the trouble is, people want an AMAZING skill, when sometimes your gift is being you, and all you do that goes unnoticed by most.
Things you do with your eyes shut, and never think about, but we're never "taught", that's a skill/gift.
The gift of kindness, is an amazing gift, and so rare these days.
Please don't be hard on yourselves for not having this "special" gift, cos you have it already.