Boyfriend

If you do not feel loved by the way he behaves then him saying it will not make any difference.

I am saying with kindest, maybe he does not love you, but does that matter if you are happy with the relationship you have on a day to day level.

Have you told him that you love him, Workingnana?

You know him better than we do, workingnan , so you are the only person who can answer your own question.

You know him better than we do, *workingnan

If it is true that you love him, then why doesn't he know already? After four years in the past, and another two months recently, both of you should have no doubts about your feelings.

If it is NOT true, then never mind agonising over what to put on a Valentine, what on earth are you doing wasting your weekends on seeing him?

Does her treat your kindly? Does he make you laugh? If the answer is yes to both these questions, then IMO that is more important.

Is he one of those men who think that because they are with you that it's obvious they love you?