I thought about it again and was going to post on the other thread but it reached its limit really quickly.
Is that the fastest thread ever?
Harry said years ago that neither he nor William were happy at the thought of becoming King. William has obviously decided that this will probably be his destiny (barring a revolution!), has matured and is undertaking his Royal duties with grace and charm with the help of his wife and has three children so Harry is no longer 3rd in line.
Others lead more ordinary lives and the Monarchy was going to reduce the number of working Royals anyway.
I wondered if Harry, with Meghan's encouragement, could be the instigator of this and he sees Meghan as his 'escape route' to a more ordinary life?
I still think they were wrong to do this in the way they did but I can see why they would both want to.