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TrendyNannie6 Wed 01-Jan-20 13:24:15

I had to laugh lady shopping in well known supermarket this morning in pjs slippers n dressing gown, oh how times have changed, I’ve seen a few now, not in full attire generally pjs and coat over, I’m not judging each to their own, at least was dressed,I did think of those of us that feel naked if we haven’t got our mascara on to open the door,

GagaJo Wed 01-Jan-20 17:08:20

I wouldn't do it either. I think it's an age thing. Plus, I'd get arrested if I went to Sainsbury's in my nightwear! They're not that all encompassing.

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 17:09:44

I'm kind of on the fence about it.
My first reaction is that its "not nice" but part of me thinks it really shouldn't matter too much.

NotTooOld Wed 01-Jan-20 17:15:10

I agree, MissA, so long as the 'leisure wear' and the person wearing it is clean then what's the difference really? I often feel glad (usually when donning leggings) that women today can wear comfortable clothes and no longer have to dress in boned bra, corset and suspenders like my poor mum!

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 17:18:47

I'll say one thing; it's hard to feel threatened when meeting a group of people who are wearing JimJams with fluffy bunny slippers.

NotTooOld Wed 01-Jan-20 17:22:44

grin MissA - that conjures up a wonderful picture.
'Hand over yer purse or I'll put the bunny slipper in'.

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 17:27:00

grin

Harris27 Wed 01-Jan-20 17:29:02

I hardly recognised my dil at Christmas with her clothes on she usually has pyjamas on every time we go. She says she likes to be comfortable but I still find it funny. Even the kids are bathed and washed at 4pm on. A Sunday!

threexnanny Wed 01-Jan-20 17:32:23

Wondering around in your nightwear used to mean that the police would appear and lead you gently away!

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 17:35:26

My daughter was a big fan of the onesie, and I have happy memories of her chasing her dog down the road dressed as a turquoise cow. (Daughter dressed as cow, not dog!)

Happygirl79 Wed 01-Jan-20 18:14:28

There's a TV advert 'Pyjama mama's' where women and men are doing the school run in their pyjamas.. It is a car advert
A sign of the times!

Fennel Wed 01-Jan-20 18:20:45

I've heard about this, but have never seen it here. And I go to our Tesco Extra nearly every day.
Maybe it's because I go in the morning when it's mostly oldies like me.

M0nica Wed 01-Jan-20 18:23:00

Summerlove I have never dressed to please a man in my life. In fact I thought all that ended decades ago, except for a few who did it when on a night out.

I have dressed tactically in the past; when going to job interviews, attending legal proceedings etc, but dress to please a man? Good heavens how old-fashioned.

Mind you when you see some leisure or casual clothes it would be easy to mistake them for pyjamas. I have noticed very little difference between what some members of my family consider casual wear and what they actually wear as night clothes.

Davidhs Wed 01-Jan-20 18:26:33

There is one school locally where it seems to be “De Rigeur” to take the kids too school in pyjamas and slippers. Never seen it in the supermarket.

Willow500 Wed 01-Jan-20 18:27:25

I would never dream of going out without being showered/strip washed - surely those still in their nightwear have done neither? I've seen people in various stores in their pj's, dressing gowns and slippers at all times of the day.

I gave my gds pj's for Christmas and the youngest (18) put hers on before they set off for the 2 hour drive home. Her dad says she lives in them when she's not at school or work grin

Doodledog Wed 01-Jan-20 18:29:54

I didn't do it (I walked mine to school, and dropped them off on my way to work), but I can't see the harm in putting a coat over pjs if you are staying in the car.

I wouldn't go to a supermarket in pjs though - I wouldn't leave the house in them - but I do sometimes leave them on indoors if I am not going out. Mine are more 'loungewear', I suppose (tracksuit-style) and if I am in my own house and nobody is invited over, I can't see any harm in it.

rafichagran Wed 01-Jan-20 18:30:44

I find this trend lazy and dirty,probably means they have not had a wash or a shower.

Chestnut Wed 01-Jan-20 18:37:30

Leisure clothes are so comfortable and casual now, I can't see why anyone would need to go out in nightclothes. It would take about 2 minutes to put some casual clothes on and slip into a pair of shoes. That is presuming they don't have time to wash or clean their teeth............
I find it so disgusting and lazy and can't believe they have so little self respect.

Chestnut Wed 01-Jan-20 18:40:54

Doodledog: I can't see the harm in putting a coat over pjs if you are staying in the car.
In theory maybe. But what if you then had to go inside the school for some reason? I just couldn't do it! Not worth the risk.

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 18:42:39

I tend to think people who care so little what others think must have very good self respect.
I'd love to have that level of confidence.

Doodledog Wed 01-Jan-20 18:50:56

*Doodledog: I can't see the harm in putting a coat over pjs if you are staying in the car.
In theory maybe. But what if you then had to go inside the school for some reason? I just couldn't do it! Not worth the risk.*
True. As I said, I didn't do it, and personally, I wouldn't go out without my outdoor clothes on. I think my children would have objected to my shopping in my pj's, even if I had wanted to.

In most cases, though, if children are old enough to be let out of the car and into school on their own, the chances are that any visits to the school would be by appointment, and someone sitting in a car wearing a coat wouldn't be obviously in nightclothes.

For clarification - I wold always have a wash/shower even if staying in leisurewear smile. Why would anyone think otherwise?

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 19:17:48

My daughter got into a fair few scrapes wearing her pyjamas.
The car breaking down on a busy junction..

Barmeyoldbat Wed 01-Jan-20 19:21:06

I see nothing wrong in it, in fact some of the pj are so nice that it does seem a shame to just wear them at home.

In Cambodia the women tend to wear their pj until about 1 or 2. They go shopping in them, they even serve you in a restaurant in them. One hotel the receptionist had hers on at 8.30 when she check us out. So when I was there I use to do the same, buying myself some lovely pj to wear. I would turn up for breakfast in them and only change when when I was ready to go out.

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jan-20 19:26:11

Oh that sounds nice!

Riverwalk Wed 01-Jan-20 19:40:26

I tend to think people who care so little what others think must have very good self respect.

I tend to think it's because they can't be arsed to get dressed!

Chestnut Wed 01-Jan-20 19:44:37

Yes the pyjamas are nice Barmeyoldbat but seeing someone wearing them outside the home indicates laziness (not just driving with a coat on but actually walking around). It implies that they got up and went straight out without washing. In other words that they are dirty in their habits.
I can't see someone who has some nice new pyjamas wearing them outside just because they look good!
Then we come to why you change clothes at all, which is all about hygiene. I was always taught that our day clothes shouldn't be worn in bed because of the transference of germs.