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Everything - well nearly everything - is right in this country

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Opal Tue 03-Dec-19 14:04:03

Don't know about you but I'm getting so fed up with all of the doom mongers and nay sayers on here, I thought I'd start up a thread for the positive amongst us to list everything that we think is great about this country.

My thoughts - I love the beautiful British countryside and the fact that it looks different in every season. I love our friendly village pubs that serve good beer and good pub grub. I love our coastline, some of the most beautiful in the world.

Over to you guys - let's keep this thread going ........

pinkquartz Wed 04-Dec-19 12:54:48

Why do people keep stating that the NHS is FREE

We have paid into the fund. It is FREE at point of need but we do pay for it.......

`sorry to interrupt the flow but it was really bugging me.

I love this country for being so beautiful.
For being able to mostly have freedom of speech.
For being able to dress as we want to.
For having a sense of humour,
For the coastline. I love the sea.
But it doesn't feel as good as it used to........sorry sad

Opal Wed 04-Dec-19 12:45:24

Oh dear, it seems the usual culprits are determined to put a fly in the ointment, and simply can't resist trying to spoil a "feelgood" thread for the rest of us. A bit like their politics really.

Anyway, I suggest we just ignore their posts. I've thought of another one - Fish 'n' Chips!!! grin

lovebeigecardigans1955 Wed 04-Dec-19 11:33:29

Our wonderful sense of humour
Compassion and tolerance
Beautiful gardens
Cream teas
Traditional breakfasts
Quirkiness
NHS

Callistemon Wed 04-Dec-19 11:29:34

Oh, I got it first time round whitewave!

Yes, it was an attempt to derail a nice, positive, optimistic thread Oldwoman
There are enough of the pessimistic doom and gloom threads on here without trying to derail, a this one.

henetha Wed 04-Dec-19 10:37:08

My thanks too, Opal. I do get tired of all the negative threads on here. This is still a wonderful country to live in.
I give thanks every day that I was born here.
I'm near Dartmoor and the air is clean and pure, the moors are beautiful no matter what the season.
There are a million unknown acts of kindness every day,
I have been on the receiving end of some of them.
As for politics, I like to think that we can make up our own minds without being constantly harangued by some.

dallas Wed 04-Dec-19 10:28:20

~Thank you Opal for starting this thread, it's made my day.
I lost my husband a year ago and the care he received from the NHS was of the very best. I live in a village which has wrapped it's arms around me this year, we all look out for each other, helping where we can, . The kindness of people I'v met on buses and trains who help me on and off and chat away really make every trip.
I love getting up in the morning and reading all the Grannetters posts.
I love England for so many reasons, too numerous to mention. Life is good in England.

Nico97 Wed 04-Dec-19 10:25:51

Irony oldwoman

Hardly - just another attempt to derail a thread that brings some lighthearted reading to quite a few hmm

Oldwoman70 Wed 04-Dec-19 10:16:30

hmm

Whitewavemark2 Wed 04-Dec-19 10:14:08

Irony oldwoman

Oldwoman70 Wed 04-Dec-19 10:09:16

Whitewavemark2 May I remind you of your previous post on this thread

"Ooh I can join in this.

I love my life. I have a wide circle of friends with whom we socialise on a regular basis.

I love the theatre and attend regularly both in Brighton, Chichester and of course London.

I adore the countryside and walk on the South Downs most days enjoying the views.

My physical and mental health is excellent

I read extensively, and my hobby is painting largely botanicals.

Gardening is a passion.

There that is my contribution to this thread."

Seems your opinion has changed overnight.

MawB Wed 04-Dec-19 10:06:08

Add comment | Report | Private message Davidhs Wed 04-Dec-19 09:08:21
We are very lucky to live in England’s green and pleasant land where most of us have a comfortable life, the less fortunate have good support in most cases but that does not mean it’s perfect

While I agree that there are worse places and we would be kidding ourselves to say “everything is awesome” I woukd challenge that most have a comfortable life and that the less fortunate have good support.
The gap between the very rich and the others seems to be widening daily, I have no recollection of people living rough and sleeping on the streets in my childhood, support agencies are stretched to beyond their limits and mental health issues are on the increase.
Yes, there are infinitely worse places to be, but we could also learn from those where the quality of life is infinitely better. .

Mapleleaf Wed 04-Dec-19 10:03:04

Indeed there are, crystaltippsand I was not being smug nor superior in posting that I feel we are lucky in this country to be able to drive a car, vote, turn on a tap for water, etc. You know as well as I that there are places in this world of ours where this is not the case. Therefore, I feel lucky that I am fortunate to live in a country (amongst many), where these things are possible.

Gonegirl Wed 04-Dec-19 09:55:43

It's easy to feel everything is pretty good at this time of the year. I do. I'm even looking forward to the General Election.

Right little Pollyanna me, at the moment.grin

Won't even think about January.

Callistemon Wed 04-Dec-19 09:50:59

It was just an observation whitewave

Whitewavemark2 Wed 04-Dec-19 09:31:54

callistemon and there was I thinking that you were apologising for making your post personal.

Callistemon Wed 04-Dec-19 09:24:02

That was apologies for the spelling mistake

Whitewavemark2 Wed 04-Dec-19 09:23:40

chewbacca OK lets go with your figure then.

There are 1500000 people destitute in the UK.

Which means that families have to live on £140 per week.

This has happened since 2012.

How can I as a member of that family answer the question posed in the OP?

Callistemon Wed 04-Dec-19 09:22:39

whitewave
Apologies

Callistemon Wed 04-Dec-19 09:22:12

Why post that on an optimistic thread, whitewafe? There are more than enough pessimistic threads where you could post it.

I notice most posters have listed everything that is good about this country and the generosity of the people in giving their money, their services and even their lives for the good of others.
I found your earlier post concentrated just on yourself - I and me and not on the goodness of others.

Chewbacca Wed 04-Dec-19 09:18:02

Ah! So YouGov are wrong and the Graunian is right? Ok then. hmm

Whitewavemark2 Wed 04-Dec-19 09:16:06

davidh yes absolutely extraordinary that there has been so much mental breakdown and family crises since 2012 isn’t it?

Whitewavemark2 Wed 04-Dec-19 09:14:43

The Guardian editorial.

Chewbacca Wed 04-Dec-19 09:13:27

There are 4000000 like me.

I asked on your other thread where you obtained that data from WhiteWave. YouGov last issued stats in June 2018 quoting 1.5 million, not 4 million. And, whilst that's 1.5 million too many, I'd be interested to know where you obtained the other 2.5 from. Source please?

crystaltipps Wed 04-Dec-19 09:11:57

No I haven’t missed the point - there are good and bad things about most places so “everything” is not right with “anywhere” surely? There are lots of countries where you have the right to vote and drive have electricity and tap water and walk about where you like it’s not just the U.K. - so why the smug superiority?

Davidhs Wed 04-Dec-19 09:08:21

We are very lucky to live in England’s green and pleasant land where most of us have a comfortable life, the less fortunate have good support in most cases but that does not mean it’s perfect.
There will always be more to do, a great deal of poverty is caused by relationship breakdown and mental illness, how we tackle that I have no idea.