Susan, I don't think you are moaning! Sometimes we just need to vocalise our worries, without offloading on our families. That's why you have your virtual pals here.
Everyone must be fed up with me offloading on here, but it gets it out of my system and then I get on with things. I don't want to keep moaning at my husband, as I know he worries, but internalises it all and becomes very withdrawn.
I know exactly what you mean, about someone one co-ordinating it all, I'm in a similar situation, consultants never speak to each other and each one thinks they take priority.
I end up with all sorts of problems, caused by the medication.
Go and enjoy yourself today! 
Why can't I wear this to a wedding?
Air Conditioning units ,any advice please?
. I'm an expert at this.


