To(i)let or not to (i) let, that is the question.

Good grief Magpie you were very unlucky with the workmen in your house. I'm thanking my lucky stars I only had one unflushed loo!

When our extension was being built we moved out to out family caravan to escape the dust (and chaos).
A while after the builders had left there was a terrible smell in our garage which we couldn't trace. Eventually I found that someone had been using my watering can to pee in then hidden it in a store cupboard - it was full to the brim so not just one visit! I just don't understand why they would need to do that, they had constant access to the three toilets.

Also, they used and smashed all my favourite china mugs which were hidden away but ignored the mugs I'd left out for them. So they'd obviously had a good root around too.

Sorry? What do you mean Gonegirl?

(Sorry Gabriella)

Oh God! Can't you tell she's back.

Very timely subject Gabriella because I've just had my whole bathroom ripped out and completely reinstalled and so I've had 2 weeks with various plumbers, tilers and electricians in the house. For the first few days there wasn't a loo for them to pee in or me, for that matter and I've no idea what they used as an alternative I used a bucket in the shed. Once the loo was positioned temporarily into place, I expect they used that but there wasn't a wash basin for them to use to be fair. Once the basics were fully installed, I had no problem with them using them but, there was at least one occasion when an unflushed loo was left for me to discover at the end of their working day ?.

I provided endless cups of tea/coffee and biscuits throughout the day (probably not a good idea in view of their being no loo) and when I made a lunchtime sandwich, I offered to make one for them too. Only once was my offer taken up though. I've no problem with any of this because the men who worked in my house for 2 weeks worked hard and did a good job and I'd like to think that I'd treated them fairly.

Yes, we allow in fact sometimes offer the use of the bathroom to anyone working here. Most people have left it clean and tidy, the odd one hasn’t but truly a minority. I suspect and hope the MD’s behaviour was far from typical Gabriella. Your post made me smile calendargirl. Our bathroom fitter took the toilet out on arrival in the morning, placed it centrally on the front lawn where it stayed until the end of the day. No, we didn’t use it there . Neighbours offered but the nearest supermarket became the favourite comfort stop. I suspect plumbers are more used to these comfort issues than we are and turn not a hair.

That's just odd Gabriella, handing sarnies and crisps to delivery men. I don't feed workmen. They might get a rich tea with their cuppa, but that's their lot.

We have two loos. I always make sure they use the one I don't. Never had a non-flusher though.

GabriellaG how long do your Yodel or Hermes couriers spend at your house?
My Hermes man who is a sweetie hands whatever over on the doorstep and is halfway down the drive almost before I have shut the door.
These drivers are on a tight time schedule and the charming Mr Singh from DPD who delivers Hattie’s dog food actually warned me that from now until the new year, he will knock or ring “and run” leaving the box on the mat as he has so many deliveries to get through.

I wouldn’t expect them to work through their lunch time , no, would offer tea or coffee, but would expect them to bring their own sandwiches.

I usually give a packet of sandwiches and crisps plus water to Yodel or Hermes drivers so would give lunch money to other workmen who are here for more than a few hours.
They don't expect it but if they're here all day I don't expect them to work through their lunch time.

Meant to say it’s not so much workmen in the house as me having to use the loo when they are working in the bathroom.
“Excuse me, just want to use the loo, would you mind vacating the bathroom for a couple of minutes please? Sorry to be a pain!”

???

Rereading OP’s post, of course it was not the workmen whose toilet manners were so at fault, but the company director !
The men themselves may be the perfect houseguests. My mother used to have a wonderful electrician (with chiselled matinee idol looks too!) who would insist on hoovering up after he had done any work, and Mum admitted he usually left things cleaner than he found them

Why on EARTH would he have not flushed the loo? Disgusting.
We only have one bathroom, loo etc.
It needs updating, we want to take the bath out and have a walk-in shower/wet room installed, but the thought of workmen in my house all day, plus me wanting to use the loo..... so just keep putting it off.
DH doesn’t see any problem, think men are not so bothered about such details.

I wouldn't mind at all,why would I ?What would the alternative be ...

No I don’t mind at all! I live in the middle of no where and the alternative is peeing behind a bush!

I don’t mind anyone using my facilities, it’s common decency in my opinion. I’d mention non flushing but I clean regularly enough that I’m not in the least bit concerned about germs.

As for lunch money that’s almost insulting - I’m sorry but I’ve never ever heard of that. We feed our workmen and we’ve had plenty in the last 2 years. They’re just people not walking plague carriers .

Well have to toilets but can't say I LIKE workmen using the facilities but accept it as needs must. I just thoroughly clean up after they have left. I have found it extremely stressful when having to accommodate workmen for a month or more, but as I want the work done I accept all the extra cleaning involved. I had a new boiler and pump etc fitted a year ago and thankfully that only took a couple of hours.

One of the very good reasons for having a cloakroom (even in a flat) so that the situation dies not arise.
But I am puzzled by the provision of “lunch money” - whenever I have had workmen in they either seem to bring sandwiches which they eat outside on the terrace in summer or in their van or sometimes in the garage in winter, or do without so that they can finish earlier. Of course I provide regular infusions of tea/coffee, water or whatever.
If I only had one loo I suppose I would just have to not be squeamish about it (but change the hand towels and soap as well as giving the loo a thorough going over)

I don`t mind workmen using the loo but I would ask them if they didn`t flush / wash to do so.
And leave tools etc in utility room.
ERRRRM why would you give them lunch money?.