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travelsafar Thu 14-Nov-19 13:58:53

Sad to read that Harry, Megan and Archie will not be with the royal family for Christmas. The Queen and Prince Phillip are so elderly now, who knows if they will be here next year. It would have been lovely to see photos of the family with the little family included. Sign of the times, when even the royal family are being pulled apart.sad

Gonegirl Thu 21-Nov-19 16:05:10

Not pathetic. It's from Alice Through the Looking Glass. smile

suziewoozie Thu 21-Nov-19 16:02:06

How absolutely pathetic Gone

Gonegirl Thu 21-Nov-19 16:00:07

"She only does it to annoy,
Because she knows it teases"

[gringringrin

Don't blame her one little bit either.

janipat Thu 21-Nov-19 15:53:25

Well I will plough in. Anniebach you are not a stupid woman and therefore are quite able to remember that Prince Harry's wife spells her name Meghan not Megan. Why then do you purposely misspell it every single time you reference her? It does come across as either very childish or very spiteful. You don't have to like her to accord her that basic human decency that should come naturally.

pinkquartz Thu 21-Nov-19 15:39:17

what did Harry do to have his own money?

pinkquartz Thu 21-Nov-19 15:37:09

Callistemon

well I read today that PA will no longer get £249,000 per annum form the tax payer.......if they do public duties they get paid plus we pay for the security for them to do the public duty.
They cost a lot

annep1 Thu 21-Nov-19 15:27:55

Off topic. Sometimes the squabbling on GN makes me laugh. I include myself. Sorry if I'm beung rude.

Callistemon Thu 21-Nov-19 15:14:48

As far as I was aware none of them receive money directly from the taxpayer for their duties apart from the Queen.
I presume she decides whether or not to 'employ' them.

We pay for their security and refurbishing of State owned properties.

GabriellaG54 Thu 21-Nov-19 15:12:44

My married surname has never been mis-spelled as it is written as said.
My maiden name was occasionally mis-heard so I used to say it and spell it. ??

Anniebach Thu 21-Nov-19 15:11:27

Gabriella sorry I thought you meant live like Zara but remain on the civil list, it isn’t called that now but I can remember what it is called.

annep1 Thu 21-Nov-19 15:09:16

I endorse what Pinkquartz has said Anniebach. Your friend David indeed sounds like a very special person.

Anniebach Thu 21-Nov-19 15:08:38

Yes Alexa , we stopped it in the UK, following this campaign
S.A. was banned from The Olympics, rugby, cricket and World Cup in the 70’s

When S.A. won this years rugby World Cup and the black captain held the cup , it was so emotional and I felt for the young person I was those years ago, and my father saying
‘Take care ‘, my mother saying ‘don’t get yourself on television ?

GabriellaG54 Thu 21-Nov-19 15:07:20

Anniebach
I know all that and I did not suggest that they have it all ways.
I did write that Harry has his own money, meaning that they, as a family, could comfortably live without the ties of Royal duties and the monies paid for those duties.
I guess Harry wants to live more 'off grid' than the RF are happy with but so what.
It's the 21st century and rules and habits and expectations can be altered and are altered.
I'm far from being anti-royalty but do declare that it needs refining and redefining.

Callistemon Thu 21-Nov-19 15:03:42

I had a friend called Gabriella at school.
She had a very unusual surname, easy to spell wrong.

GabriellaG54 Thu 21-Nov-19 14:58:54

Some do, as do I.

Callistemon Thu 21-Nov-19 14:51:40

Gonegirl thank you
However, I know my name's not easy to spell

Thank goodness we don't use our real ones grin

Alexa Thu 21-Nov-19 14:40:00

Were you indeed Anniebach How interesting! my best friend at one time was very much concerend with this too.

grapefruitpip Thu 21-Nov-19 14:39:38

I suppose it's hard to mis -spell Zara.

Callistemon Thu 21-Nov-19 14:38:58

Three Australian universities have rejected Andrew. Meghan and Harry went down a storm in Australia.

Callistemon Thu 21-Nov-19 14:37:33

Actually, Gabriella, I was just thinking the opposite - that now PA has stepped down from Pitch@Palace (I'd never heard of it but apparently it has brought £1b into the UK economy) and other patronages, here was an opportunity for Meghan and Harry to step into the breach.
Meghan - the English National Ballet, the other dance group?

Anniebach Thu 21-Nov-19 14:26:48

Zara doesn’t carry out royal duties so doesn’t receive payment

Harry and Megan do, they can’t have it both ways

GabriellaG54 Thu 21-Nov-19 14:23:19

Not just mis-spelling grapefruitpip , deliberately mis-spelling.

GabriellaG54 Thu 21-Nov-19 14:20:47

In Meghan's shoes, I certainly would not want to change clothes umpteen times a day as they do at Sandringham, eat as fast as HM, have to eat what is served regardless of being vegan, have to adhere to all the codes of conduct re shoots, outdoor picnics, dining times, present opening on Xmas Eve blah blah ?

I know that Meghan willingly joined the RF knowing what she had been told by Harry about the scrutiny and adherence to protocol but until you live it, it probably doesn't sink in.

I wasn't a fan to begin with but now, after about 18 months, my view is that she brings a more approachable aspect to The Family.
That remark won't sit well with those who think the RF should be on a pedestal but I think the 6th in line and his wife should have some freedoms.
Most people like and even admire the normality of Zara and her family and there is no reason for Harry, even with his closer links to the throne, not to enjoy a similar lifestyle.
He has enough money of his own to enjoy a comfortable existence wherever he and Meghan choose to live with their son.
Good luck and peace to them I say.
Unlike JB, you only live once.

grapefruitpip Thu 21-Nov-19 14:06:07

Blimey, so mis spelling a name is a sort of passive aggressive attack.

Who'd of thunk it?

Anniebach Thu 21-Nov-19 14:04:59

Ignore Harry and Megan need a six week holiday with full security because of Andrew ?