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12Michael Tue 05-Nov-19 06:12:29

Good Morning Everyone,
Its dark, but it looks wet outside this morning in Brackley.
I watched the DVD release of "Yesterday" last night and enjoyed it.
My usual day out today , a couple of coffees and shops in Bicester and Buckingham.
Mick

EllanVannin Tue 05-Nov-19 08:56:36

Good Morning All x
It doesn't know what to do weatherwise but I think I can predict rain before the day's out. Not so warm either.

Well the meeting of yesterday was quite intense at times and as each family member was writing their terms of support to my GD and her children I developed " writers block " and didn't complete what I'd set out to write, plus I'd ticked 2 negative comments because I'd suddenly realised that things don't change overnight. I was being realistic. To expect a sick man( ex. partner to my GD and father of the children ) to carry out what's been set out, isn't a viable option. My GD had sent him packing back to his father because it was like looking after another child when he was recovering. He's got a form of Hodgkins Lymphoma and looked unwell yesterday. He had stem-cell treatment 2 years ago on Christmas Day.

I know it's family, but I can honestly say that I can do without this at my time of life and my D works all hours to pay her mortgage and bills so any time off has to be dedicated to the children, though she's always been very good in helping her D and GC, financially and practically.

The twins ( 13 years old ) can come to me after school for two or three days for their teas. The illness/split up of their parents has affected them both and the girl twin takes it out on her mother.

Oh joy !!

Hope that baby arrives soon DoraMarr. Reading my local paper yesterday lifted the spirits about twins who were born at 25 weeks and through the skill and care of our local maternity hospital, they survived and recently celebrated their 1st birthdays----beautiful babies, one of each.

Marydoll and dragonfly hoping things turn a corner for you both. Wish I was where Urmstongran is right now wind or not ! Still in my thoughts Gillybob x
Everyone else have a good day whatever you do.

NanKate Tue 05-Nov-19 08:56:27

I’m pleased Maryyou avoided the cave in of the roof. Can I have a piece of sultana cake please ?

Yes Ginny you are right it is smocking and I remember the puff sleeves. Knitted swimming suits were truly awful.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 05-Nov-19 08:54:11

Marydoll You were lucky as was your purse!!!!

Our little GS is recovering well thank you, they have no idea what the cause of his extremely high temperature or rash was as all the tests came back inconclusive. (I am going for cuddles later)

Nina sending good wishes to your GS.

Sar53 our local hospital is very lucky to have you as a volunteer.

Marydoll Tue 05-Nov-19 08:27:38

Good morning all from a cold and damp Glasgow.
Another bad night, I must have been up and down a dozen times and eventually took anti nausea tablets at 5am.
dragonfly, I hope your treatment isn't causing you too many stomach problems.

Lots going on for our GN grans and their families today.
Dora Marr, hoping all goes well for your daughter and her baby.
GrannyGravy, fingers crossed that your wee granchild continues to make good progress and for Nina, and her wee grandson. flowers.
I worry more about my family, than I do myself and I think most of us are like that.
Gillybob and her DH are constantly in my thoughts.

The good news is that I eventually got my tablets, but was given only fourteen, which have to be halved.
I will now need to go through the whole palavar again on Monday, when I see my GP.
Disaster struck, I was trying to use a pill cutter, when I dropped the tablets, I don't have fourteen any more. some flew off the worktop and onto the floor, but despite searching high and low, they are nowhere to be seen!!! angry
I suspect they are under the range! Why is nothing simple? grin..

Well there was some excitement yesterday.
After the doctor's I decided I would do my usual sneaky visit to the M&S outlet, as DH was otherwise occupied with the gas service engineer.
I bumped into an acquaintence from church, who wondered why I hadn't been seen out and about. ( Well I am a local worthy) One hour later....... after hearing all the gossip, I was forced to phone DH and own up to where I was, just in case he thought something had happened to me!! grin
He wasn't in the least bit surprised.

I was so exhausted when I got home, that I fell asleep and to make matters worse, I didn't even get any bargains!!! wink.
Suddenly I was wakened by a message from my daughter and then my DIL to tell me, that the roof of the shopping centre Ihad been in, collapsed a few hours after I left!!!
Is someone trying to tell me something?

Much to my surprise, fortunately no one was injured. It was jumping with ladies like me and bored, resigned husbands, (like DH), when I was in it. It's a miracle, no-one was hurt.

So endeth my novel for today.
We have a nursery pick up at lunch time and DD is popping in at dinner time to see the wee one, so I think I will go and get a sultana cake into the oven.

Have a good day everyone.

Ginny42 Tue 05-Nov-19 08:27:30

Morning Mick and everyone. I began this message at 6.30 then my DD rang to consult over work stuff (we do the same job, me p/t now) then decided on coffee and toast, so I'm just back.

I'll be walking in the woods in the rain I think at 9.00, although it's slackened off a little. So no work on the garden pots as I planned, but will go to the garden centre and buy some bright winter plants. I like to have the house looking like home when my DD and DGS arrive for Christmas.

Supporting my poor friend whose DH's dementia has worsened very rapidly, so if I get a call, all will be put on hold.

Warmest wishes to Gilly and her DH. Stay strong Gilly but remember to take care of yourself too. Lovely news that a new baby is arriving today Doramarr. Hope all our sick friends start to pick up. Have a wonderful evening Kitty.

Do you mean dresses with smocking NanKate? I had several dresses with a smocked bodice and with little rounded collars and short puffed sleeves. My mother could do that, although most were bought.

moggie Tue 05-Nov-19 08:26:17

Good morning Mick & all from wet, chilly start in Nottingham. Work today.
Hope all goes well DoraMarr & your DGS too Nina
Enjoy your first day Sar53
Thoughts are with you Gillybob & your DH, we had parking permit from hospital when my son was inpatient on oncology ward, it was several years ago no guarantee of parking space but huge help with parking fees, worth asking about.
Hope all not well or struggling have a better day.
Have a good day everyone.

Brunette10 Tue 05-Nov-19 08:19:39

Good Morning from a damp Fife, we've had some rain! Never mind it's off now. Doramarr hope all goes well for your family today, Marydoll hope yesterday went in your favour. Out this morning for an eyebrow shape and tint and this afternoon meeting an ex colleague for a good chin wag, haven't seen her in years. I'm hoping to hear up to date news on our gilly. For anyone else just feeling under the weather look after yourself and take care.

BlueSapphire Tue 05-Nov-19 08:08:37

Good morning everyone from a grey and damp Northampton. Just got some washing in (towels), but they will be going in the tumble dryer.

Both my DC were born by Caesarian, DS was an emergency, failure to progress, so DD was a planned one - good thing too, she was well over 9lb! (and I was a slim, in those days, 5ft nothing). All went well in both. Hoping you soon have news Dora.

Tidying up this morning after having DGDs yesterday. Will try and get to a health walk after lunch and then pick up younger DGD after school, give her tea, and then get her ready for Brownies. Luckily she is being taken there and back. This is my new routine now that DDIL has started her new job: pick up DGD every Tuesday and Thursday, give her tea and get her ready for clubs.

Thinking of Gilly.

Alygran Tue 05-Nov-19 08:05:30

Good morning. It’s pouring down here in North Yorkshire. Hoping it eases a bit as my friend and I have replanned our arboretum trip that we abandoned last week.
Some ironing to do first and a little jumper to sew up when I get home.
Hope all goes well Dora. Thinking of Gilly.
Happy birthday Anno
Wishing you all a good day.

NannyJan53 Tue 05-Nov-19 08:03:52

Nina wishing your grandson well for today.

Nankate I think most girls had their hair like that in the 50's smile. Apparently they had their hands on my shoulder as I never kept still! I wore pleated skirts, but don't recall pleats on top.

Susan56 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:56:47

Good morning from Shropshire.
We are going to Stafford today to visit our younger daughter and family as the invalid is getting cabin fever.
Nina I hope your grandsons surgery goes well,a worrying day for you and dora hope all goes well with the new arrival.
Mary,Lins dragonfly and all unwell,hoping you are all on the mend.
Elan,I hope the meeting went well.
Sending love and strength to gilly.

Yiayia4 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:53:54

Morning all,Thank you for the birthday messages I had a great day and evening.
Hope all goes well DoraMarr a tense day for you.
Not a lot planed today maybe shopping later.
Thinking of Gilly as always and wishing everyone a good Tuesday.

Resurgam123 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:42:47

My son was born by C section. He would not have got through my pelvis any way.
For my daughter it was an elective.
I discovered that the midwife who looked after me when I had my son,

Then had her C section on the same day as my daughter about 2 yrs later. This was in the days when you were in for over a week.
I later walked my son to see her.
Not that he knew.

Pantglas2 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:41:20

Morning all from a lovely blue sky Spain where I’m off to the gym then coffee with a friend before a trot around local market for fruit and veg. Off out this evening to support our darts team so a busy day today after doing not a lot yesterday!

Hope all goes well with new arrival DoraMarr and that we hear good news from gillybob this morning x

NanKate Tue 05-Nov-19 07:40:33

Morning Mick and All.

Overcast in South Bucks. It is sure to rain just as I am setting off for WI this afternoon.

Hope all goes well DorrMarr today for your DD and the little one.

Now come on Kitty fess up to what you have chosen to wear tonight, I know you have been mulling over it for a while.

Loved you photo yesterday NannyJ. I had my hair like that too. I bet you had a dress with all those pleat things at the top, can’t remember the name.

Enjoy your play MawB. I love going to the theatre. Do you remember when people dressed up for it in their best clothes?

Love and support to Gillyb

Lins1066 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:40:30

Good morning from a dry S Welsh coast.

DH going to DS's house to await a delivery of kitchen units and patio doors. He was there yesterday too for delivery of a range cooker. Gold star for good old Dad.

Hope all goes well for those with hospital appointments etc.
My love and prayers to gilly.

Grammaretto Tue 05-Nov-19 07:40:04

Good morning from the Scottish Borders. I don't think the rain has stopped since Friday. I shall do Christmas cooking today and shall stir in a wish for Gillybob and for your Guy Fawkes day baby Dora and for happy outcomes for all.
First I must get up.

dragonfly46 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:38:45

nina I hope your young DGS’s surgery goes well, a tense day for you too.

NannyJan53 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:37:08

Good Morning from another dull cloudy Black Country.

Had a lovely long walk yesterday morning, then a visit to a friend in the afternoon. No real plans today, so will be playing it by ear.

DoraMarr I hope all goes well for your DD. My DD had to have CS, and I remember being on tenterhooks all day at work. It is always hard when it is your child.

Special thoughts to gilly so wish there was something I could do to help.

dragonfly46 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:37:07

Good morning from murky Leicestershire.

Hope you got your pills Marydoll.
Exciting and tense day Doramarr I remember when my first DG was born. We had arranged that I would only be told when it was all over but in fact I was given a blow by blow account for 24 hours!
Happy Birthday Anno.

Gilly reaching out to you with love and support.

ninathenana Tue 05-Nov-19 07:35:04

Morning everyone.

Dull and damp again in Kent.
7 y.o. DGS is due in surgery this morning. Hoping to facetime him tomorrow.
Food shopping and coffee out this morning. I always write a list but I will it will be necessary today or I will not have half the goods I need.
I hope all those in need have good news today.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:26:54

Goodmorning Mick and all x

Its grey outside in SE Essex.

I have a busy day today, changing beds,,sorting out and packing for our trip to see eldest son in Kenya on Thursday.

DoraMarr I was in your position 5 weeks ago, it's so difficult to settle or think of anything else whilst waiting for news. I hope all goes well for your DD.

gillybob I truly hope you have some hopeful news soon, the strain must be unbearable, please try to take a few minutes each day for yourself.

Sar53 Tue 05-Nov-19 07:26:49

Good morning everyone from a bright Essex by the sea. I seem to have spent half the night listening to DH coughing, nuff said !!!
I am going to my first morning of volunteering at our local hospital today. I'm a bit nervous but excited as well. DH is going to take me there early as I have to get my photo ID card sorted first.
Not much else planned today.
Thinking of Gillybobs and her husband and anyone else facing problems.
I think we all know how you are feeling Doramarr, I hope all goes well.
Have a good day everyone.

MawB Tue 05-Nov-19 07:20:07

Good morning all! Wishing you well DoraMarr I hope you don’t have too long to wait. Two out of our three girls were delivered first thing (first on the operating list) but I had to wait until early afternoon for middle D as apparently nobody had prepared crossmatched bloods for a transfusion if I needed it. Fancy remembering that 40+ years on!
At least he/she will always have a theme to his/her birthday party from now on!) ?
Talking of which, isn’t it Annodomini’s birthday today? Many happy returns! ??
An extra hug to Gillybob and sending you strength.
I am off to see “Light Falls” at the Manchester Royal Exchange this afternoon so will wave to all the NW Grans as I pass through.
Wishing you all a pleasant day!

Nannytopsy Tue 05-Nov-19 07:19:58

Morning Corner & Urmstongran too!