In praise of carers!

Friends of mine that have cared for relatives with dementia have usually either said that it is part of the vows they made when they got married or one said "if I didn't, who would?" Not just dementia, but after a stroke, heart problems and so on.
The ones being cared for unfortunately only go into a care home when the carer is exhausted or falls ill themselves.
I have lost count of those that have sadly only lived a short time after caring for someone for a number of years as well.

Having employed carers and been one myself can I also say that caring demands much more skill than is generally acknowledged. Hats off to carers everywhere.

I ran a care service for nearly 30 years and my staff were absolute gems. Lovely to hear that carers are appreciated.

For those that care for their own loved ones and those that are employed to be carers.
Heroes every one.

For all carers

I would urge all carers to join the Carers UK forum, lots of support, hints and tips. I've been a carer for 40 years, as my son was brain damaged at birth. Also cared for, in various ways, all four parents.

I`ve needed full care for almost 20 years! Hubby did it alone for 11 and we`ve had others coming for 8 years.

I depend on him and these ladies immensely.

Without them I`d be lost.
Carers are the backbone of this country.

Let`s hear it for these heroes! Poor hubby is flagging!

I agree whole heartedly kittylester so many people going above and beyond. My daughter works for Dementia UK and is amazed at how family members step into the breach. God bless them every one .