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where along the meaness to generosity range are you ?

(57 Posts)
MissAdventure Fri 25-Oct-19 09:59:39

It depends what's meant by mean.
Mean spirited, or mean in terms of money?

I can fluctuate on both, like most people, I suppose.

Theoddbird Fri 25-Oct-19 09:57:25

Think I am middling.

polnan Fri 25-Oct-19 09:55:11

I fluctuate,, from being over generous, to then a mean streak comes in..

Fiachna50 Fri 25-Oct-19 09:23:18

No idea what I am and really don't care what anyone thinks of me. They take as they find. Mean, generous don't know. I help/donate when/where I can.

sodapop Fri 25-Oct-19 09:19:02

Yes we are much the same as Teetime My husband spends quite a bit of his time helping others.

Teetime Fri 25-Oct-19 09:15:04

DH and I agree on what we are going to donate give as presents etc etc. Allocation of time is something we both overdo.

maisyann Fri 25-Oct-19 09:12:47

based on our family background and life experiences we all have different levels of what we think is mean or over generous ?

I don't think people change so on marriage or start of a partnership some compromise has to be worked out.

I would love to hear how you deal with situations this dilemma can throws up.