My first response was, "No, it jolly well isn't" as I've been quiet all my life and feel that it lays you open to being walked over, ignored and taken for granted.
However, I'm sure that we are appreciated by others when they need to talk about a problem as we are good listeners. As long as you learn to stick up for yourself and gain confidence as you go through life it can be a good thing.
The opposite - insensitive loud types tend to be unpopular, don't you find? They're probably dying inside as they try to hide their insecurities iykwim. Don't beat yourself up.
I suppose I shouldn’t have been annoyed, but…


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