Teddy111 I'm glad you did, you are having a really tough time as a carer, and people on here do care about others. If DH isn't coming out till Monday, can you at least get out in the sunshine today, one day at a time and all that?
For me, best bits as others have said are no deadlines, no pandering to bosses, ability to go and do what we want when we want.
Downsides I would say are adjusting to a huge drop in income, and the knowledge that it really is downhill now, we are fine at the moment and really making the most of it, but time is limited, as is the length of time we have left without serious health conditions which will inevitably come at some point.