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Fun question - when did you realise you were getting older?

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Vintagegal13 Fri 16-Aug-19 08:48:02

Mine is I am more excited to be going home, than to be going out!

nannyannie44 Sat 17-Aug-19 00:56:10

I felt older when I let my grey hair show. I am used to it now.

SparklyGrandma Fri 16-Aug-19 23:50:52

hapgran and they are more likely to be moist with predictive spelling!

SparklyGrandma Fri 16-Aug-19 23:49:42

Oops Riverwalk !

Lins1066 Fri 16-Aug-19 21:29:27

Sodapop, it was the man's comment.

DH's parents died in January and mine passed away years ago. It's the realisation that we are now the oldest in our ( very small) family, that seems very sobering. It takes a bit of getting used to.

Having the Saga mag in the post just a few weeks after I retired.

AnnS1 Fri 16-Aug-19 21:12:14

In hospital last week. Asked to tell the months of the years backwards, and a couple of similar type questions daily. Because over 65. In for a hip replacement. Not impressed

OPgrndtr Fri 16-Aug-19 21:06:32

I felt old when I started getting Senior Discounts without them asking.

evansgg Fri 16-Aug-19 21:05:15

I kept my full time job until I was almost 80. Because I was still working I think the assumption was that I was in my 60s.
As soon as I retired I was treated differently even by my family.
Think it really hit me the following Christmas when I was invited to the 'Old Retainers' Christmas party. I'll only left a few weeks previously

BeeWitch Fri 16-Aug-19 19:29:13

I realised I was getting older when I thought to hell with it and began wearing red lipstick every day, even round the house.

Grandmama Fri 16-Aug-19 19:13:12

Very, very recently. I'm just turned 70 and have always thought of myself as going on 18 but having had a great deal to do for DH after a recent accident I suddenly feel old and tired. Now he's turned a corner perhaps I'll be 'going on 40' soon even if not 18 again!

Callistemon Fri 16-Aug-19 18:25:58

When I became 10 and was in 'double figures'.

Cathy21 Fri 16-Aug-19 18:09:43

When I had a heart attack out of the blue and needed a triple bypass.

Alexa Fri 16-Aug-19 18:05:42

I was only early fifties and still looked okay in some mirrors.
But one day in the hairdressers the hairdresser who I'd assumed was at least as old as me looked so much more vivid. How I wished I was a brunette instead of fading blue eyed light brown haired !

lmm6 Fri 16-Aug-19 17:23:24

When I started choosing shoes based on how comfortable they might be.

callgirl1 Fri 16-Aug-19 17:23:01

When I could no longer get down low, or climb stepladders in order to do certain jobs.
When people keep saying "Bless you".
When I realised that I only have one relative left who`s older than me.
When my youngest child is almost 48, and the oldest is 55.

Jaye53 Fri 16-Aug-19 16:49:24

Not yet can still run for a bus.grin

fizzers Fri 16-Aug-19 16:30:45

When seeing people the same age as me, or younger, and thinking God they look really old, then thinking well what the hell do I look like?

When my grandson asked me if they had pens and pencil cases in my day...

When my daughter sent me a text at 9.30pm and asked if I was asleep in bed?

Esspee Fri 16-Aug-19 15:55:43

Not yet thank goodness, I'm only 70.

NanKate Fri 16-Aug-19 15:38:12

I resemble my Nan ?

grandtanteJE65 Fri 16-Aug-19 15:37:02

When I realised that the parents of the children I taught were my son's age.

PernillaVanilla Fri 16-Aug-19 15:31:01

Recently, when I sprained my ankle. 4 weeks now of not being able to do some of the things I love most and feeling stiff and uncomfortable makes me feel well on the way to 70.

annep1 Fri 16-Aug-19 15:24:59

Sheilasue very sad flowers

Happiyogi I agree. .The age of being defined as elderly needs to be changed.
The funny thing is I complained very indignantly to the doctor about the name of the department (Care of the Elderly) and then had to explain that I couldn't see properly as I had put eardrops in my eyes that morning.

Nanny41 Fri 16-Aug-19 15:24:22

When I came from the Doctor who told me I had arthritis in my hip,now that feels old. My Daughter is 50 in a fortnight! Old again.

grannyqueenie Fri 16-Aug-19 15:13:59

When I realised that no matter how long I live that I definitely have less years ahead of me than I have behind me. I’m almost 69 and that sobering fact has only recently dawned on me, numbers have never been my best thing! ?

Maggiemaybe Fri 16-Aug-19 15:05:12

As for me, I felt the years piling on when a lovely young assistant in M & S explained to me that I could order an out of stock item online. "Do you have anyone at home who can help you with that?". shock

Welshlady2000 Fri 16-Aug-19 15:03:58

I laughed when it happened too lol.Thank God we have a sense of humour ?