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Witzend Tue 30-Jul-19 19:07:24

Dd and SiL are expecting no. 3 - bit of a surprise baby! - in early January. They already have one of each, so for once they opted to know the sex - a girl.

Today I've been trawling through names to try to help, since whichever name one of them really likes, the other doesn't because there was a nasty little baggage at school, etc. etc. And dd is getting in a tizz that they'll still be dithering at Christmas.

And it's got to be something that won't date, not twee or trendy, or celeb-ish, or that nobody's ever heard of, etc.

I've been looking at the baby names threads on MN - not much help there - either rejected already or too 'younique' for dd and SiL.
So difficult!

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:56:07

A few years ago now, my friend had a new grandson, I asked what they had called him, there was a slightly embarrassed pause, and she said, he was Stanley, we both looked at each other aghast before going into fits of giggles!

Of course, Stanley’s now are ten a penny

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:51:34

I like what I always think of as ‘maids names ‘
Daisy
Polly
Florence
Annie
Hetty
Kitty
And many more

SparklyGrandma Wed 31-Jul-19 20:37:31

Oo watermeadow those names are all used in one side of my family, you are not Welsh are you?

Littleannie Wed 31-Jul-19 20:37:14

I knew Isabella Bell.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:33:22

??????

Callistemon Wed 31-Jul-19 20:31:56

I knew a Mavis Davis (just saying in case Mavis GrannyGravy should happen to meet and marry a Mr Davis one day).

GrannyGravy13 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:30:29

Our C and GC all have traditional/old fashioned names, we have 2 babies due in the next 5 months and one of the names for one AC is Mavis.

SparklyGrandma Wed 31-Jul-19 20:29:56

I have a DGD called Florence, my grandfathers sister, born 1893 was also Florence, with the same surname.

What goes around, comes back. If I had had a DD our plan was to call her Rebecca or Emma.

That was the late 1970’s.

Grandma70s Wed 31-Jul-19 20:17:40

I agree Rosemary is lovely, and I have often wondered why it doesn’t seem to be used any more. Perhaps it’s coming back.

If I’d had a daughter she would have been called Caroline.

watermeadow Wed 31-Jul-19 20:14:55

It’s hard nowadays because there’s infinite choice. On my family tree, for hundreds of years, the same few names predominate.
Girl? Anne, Elizabeth, Catherine.
Boy? John, William, Richard.
Now, by wanting a yoonique name, parents choose daft or ugly names. I know a girl called Rees and a boy called Ty.

Ellie Anne Wed 31-Jul-19 20:12:31

Mirren is becoming popular here.
I like Esther and Rosemary

Sararose Wed 31-Jul-19 20:12:31

My son hated his third name so much that when he went to register to get married he didn't know how to spell it. He had to ring me up to ask!! The registrar thought it was hilarious!

lemongrove Wed 31-Jul-19 20:09:12

There are so many lovely names for girls that I don’t understand the need to ‘make one up’.

Lizzie257 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:08:49

Rosemary
It’s a beautiful name
And I’ve always loved the song
Love grows where my Rosemary goes

Callistemon Wed 31-Jul-19 20:07:36

overthehills May I refer you to my post of Wed 31-Jul-19 12:09:41 about Mabel?
wink
Not all had whiskers!

Musicgirl Wed 31-Jul-19 20:03:55

Whatever the final choice fashion seems to play a part in names whether we are conscious of it or not. As a teacher for over thirty years it is interesting to see this. When l first started teaching, mid-1980s, there were lots of Julias, Annas and Victorias. Many girls born in the 1980s were named Gemma/Jemma or Charlotte. A little later came the Emilys, Lucys, Hannahs, Sophies, Alices, Bethanys and Megan's. At the moment l have a lot of Isabel/Isabellas.

lemongrove Wed 31-Jul-19 19:45:38

It’s a nice tradition to use family names, and the older names are right back in fashion now.
My small DGS has friends with names from my grandad’s generation, born around the late 1890’s.
The girls in his class are the same, Daisy,Esme,Maude, Annabelle,Penny,Georgina.

CanadianGran Wed 31-Jul-19 19:37:23

My little granddaughter (3) is Abigail. It is sometimes shortened to Abby, but she usually corrects people. I like it both ways. My niece is Julia, which is traditional yet not too common.

My theory was that names had to 'go' with the last name, and not too many syllables in total. eg Alexander McAllister... nice Scottish name but 8 syllables! Try to keep it 5 and under. I also prefer names with a traditional spelling.

Goodbyetoallthat Wed 31-Jul-19 18:18:12

Our youngest daughter is Flora. She was the only one in her school. No one ever mentioned the margarine. She was named after the Roman goddess of spring & loves her name.

NannyC1 Wed 31-Jul-19 18:16:42

My GD is named Camille her middle name is Layla. Her mother is named Francesca.
My step daughter was going to name her daughter Chardonnay! Till I suggested maybe Blue Nun or Leibfraumilch!! Fortunately she decided on Madeline which suits her beautifully. ?

callgirl1 Wed 31-Jul-19 18:08:16

A childhood friend of mine was called Gleason, I`ve never come across another.
It`s a good job our eldest son was a boy, because if he`d been a girl I had Rosanna Gale lined up for him. He says he would never have forgiven me for it!

Overthehills Wed 31-Jul-19 18:05:45

I had a whiskery old great aunt called Mabel Witzend!! grin

HillyN Wed 31-Jul-19 18:04:25

My MiL was called Mabel but she told us her mother pronounced it May-Belle. She was always called May by the family, as was my Gran whose real name was Mary!

glammagran Wed 31-Jul-19 17:46:45

MissFoodLove - I have that name you profess you would have liked. As a child I hated it as I never did meet another and felt very odd; I wanted to be Hazel (??) As an adult I’ve always felt indifferent to my name.

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 17:43:39

My grandson has a friend called Walter, never expected to hear a child called that!