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annsixty Wed 24-Jul-19 09:44:52

My D is going through the menopause.

sue01 Thu 25-Jul-19 09:28:55

Likewise Katy K ! My son is law turned 50 recently... my daughter is 50 next year. Plus the Grandchildren are now 6 feet 4 and 6 feet 2... and kiss the top of my head !

But I still jump in puddles !!

Anniet Thu 25-Jul-19 09:31:18

I agree with blondenana. I don't feel old, only old-ish. My son is 51 (we were married for 8 years before we had him), eldest granddaughter 21. I know people look at me and consider me to be old because I too get offered a seat on the tube/bus etc. Our son works in the Far East sometimes and they have a lovely way of putting it. "Respected Elders."

DotMH1901 Thu 25-Jul-19 09:47:12

I am 64 next month, my son is 43 and my daughter is 40. I live with my daughter and grandchildren (16, 12, 10) and I run the house whilst DD works full time - think that keeps me young as there is always something that needs doing! When I think back to my own lovely Gran at the same age she was an old lady - and dressed accordingly!. My DD and GD's pinch my clothes (something I could never imagine doing with my Gran/Mum) so I must still be in fashion smile

Blinko Thu 25-Jul-19 09:51:35

Ooh, DotMH1901, that would be my ideal scenario. Though not sure where I would put DH...

harrigran Thu 25-Jul-19 10:02:56

My son in law is 54 and DD 50, cripes I am ancient.

nipsmum Thu 25-Jul-19 10:10:27

When my granddaughter asks what age I was when I first saw a dinosaur.??

hazel93 Thu 25-Jul-19 10:17:00

When I had two wipeouts surfing - time to move on girl !

00mam00 Thu 25-Jul-19 10:26:56

DD and I were looking at a photo of my GM the other day when she was the same age I am now, 73. We couldn’t believe how old she looked compared to me, it did give me a boost, except when I was in London recently I was offered seats on the tube, 3 times. And I felt I needed them.

VRH1 Thu 25-Jul-19 10:31:13

When you’ve been diagnosed with illnesses that will make the rest of your life a real struggle. And reminisce about the days when you were fit and well.

Foxyferret Thu 25-Jul-19 10:39:22

Realising that most of my record collection artists are either ancient or dead.

CarrieAnn Thu 25-Jul-19 10:42:39

My friend(now deceased),was around thirty five when her son asked her if they had stage coaches in Ireland when she was a little girl

nannypiano Thu 25-Jul-19 11:09:27

I didn't feel old until I read all your posts and found I could relate to them all.

Kim19 Thu 25-Jul-19 11:10:29

Interesting. My age doesn't bother me one little bit but having a son of 50 made me ponder. Gee whiz!

grannytotwins Thu 25-Jul-19 11:11:15

When I came last in a sparring competition. I nearly cried although I’m 69 and my opponents were all in their twenties and thirties. I thought I was a ridiculous old woman, but I’ve dusted myself off and am competing again in August.

Samiejb Thu 25-Jul-19 11:21:47

I look in the mirror
The bus driver calls me 'love'
Puffed out quicker
Sitting on the floor and can't get up again
Getting up from the settee with 'oooh

narrowboatnan Thu 25-Jul-19 11:31:39

When I look at all the unread books in my kindle and wonder if I’ll be able to read them all before I die grin

4allweknow Thu 25-Jul-19 11:41:56

Definitely feel old when GS reminds me that I am going to die. He hasn't yet added 'soon'!.

travelsafar Thu 25-Jul-19 11:51:39

I dont feel my age emotionally and mentally but my body does unfortunately.
I sometimes look in the mirror and think who is that!!!!
Also my 'baby' sister will be 60 this year and i can remember holding her after she was born at home she had a shock of jet black hair but it turn into white blonde as she grew and now it is starting to go grey.

Diane227 Thu 25-Jul-19 12:13:05

When I decided this summer that I cant wear white trousers anymore. They used to be one of my staples.

lmm6 Thu 25-Jul-19 12:15:40

I agree with everyone. Was initially insulted when a young man gave up his seat for me on the bus - but then was delighted to take it. When buying shoes my first thought is are they comfortable rather than what do they look like? Not being strong enough to open tins or jars. Planning a day's rest after a day out. Joining the National Trust. Going on coach holidays. And my GS tells me I huff and puff when I sit down or stand up. It all creeps up doesn't it.

GreenGran78 Thu 25-Jul-19 12:25:00

I consider other people of my age to be old, but not myself! Isn’t that weird?
However, I recently realised that the first thing I do, on arriving somewhere, is to pinpoint where the Ladies is. Maybe I’m older than I think!

Hilarybee Thu 25-Jul-19 12:56:34

So are gold sandals a sign of age then?

sodapop Thu 25-Jul-19 13:13:38

Definitely having children who are fifty or older, brings it home quite forcibly.

beautybumble Thu 25-Jul-19 13:24:48

...... when I'm standing at the door and can't remember if I've just come back or just going. lol.

Yvon Thu 25-Jul-19 13:42:45

I agree with Hunpty Dunpty. In London people have started offering me their seats on trains and busses, and helpiing me if I have. case on stairs.
I am learning to enjoy it !