Soop's welcoming kitchen for all in need of a hearty blether.

Good Afternoon to everyone in the kitchen. I have read all the posts now, I hope that those with buggerations will have a positive outcome.
I will try the delicious icecream recipes Maw and Galen, whereabouts are you on the Bristol side by the way?
greyd I left some plum crumble in the fridge for you, with vanilla custard, though I love icecream it has to be custard with crumble in this house.

I have been to the opticians this afternoon, just called in by chance to see if they had an appointment and hey presto they did. I knew that I would need new glasses and my right eye is significantly worse than my left. Strangely after years of being shortsighted my longer vision has improved, but I can no longer read without my specs. I also have the glaucoma test as my father had it. My DH was in the waiting room but is of no use helping me chose glasses, a chocolate teapot springs to mind. I told the optician I would be in on Saturday with my DD to chose the new frames - and he said ' you'll bring your personal stylist then', he's right too, she will tell me exactly what suits and what doesn't!
It is still warm and muggy here but it has clouded over significantly, rain is forecast for tomorrow. I have included a photo of one of the hanging baskets, not as good this year despite Miracle Grow, they need rain.
That is a lovely Balsam plant soop, I join everyone in wishing you well tomorrow.
TOYA

Hopefully there is a photo included this time ?

Thank you for your post Susan56. Please may your husband's injury be dealt with successfully and without more ado.

Thank you all for kind messages. corner suggested a group of people with the same buggerations as I've experienced since prolapse surgery in 2003. I am beginning to feel confident of asking for answers that have have not been forthcoming in spite of years of referrals to a variety of consultants throughout hospitals in Scotland.

Today, I had a surprise. A member of the private hospital in which the surgery was performed contacted me. She has asked me to confirm several details which I was pleased to do. We shall wait and see whether or not I'm any the wiser after investigations are completed.

Lins1066 Wow!

Care home visit tomorrow morning. Home for a while to catch up. Off to see GP later in the afternoon.

TOYA and thank you for your company.

All the best for tomorrow soop. Let us know.
Charleygirl it is indeed warm today. I took GS to a local NT place. Too much walking hence now feeling bushed.
I did enjoy his 6-yr-old excitement at watching pond skaters and dragonflies on the lake and the insect trail that was on offer by the NT. Showers and sun tomorrow (apparently).

Good luck tomorrow Soop! I was “let go” at the eye hospital today, so that is a relief. I have spent much of the afternoon on the phone/email to solicitors and estate agents, to put a rocket under our solicitor. Is it a new requirement that all gas appliances HAVE to be serviced, with a certificate? Boiler is, fire and cooker not. What happened to caveat emptor?

I know just how you feel GrannyGravy - and often it seems like such a minor thing but only to anyone who has not felt that fear as you sit in the waiting room.

I have to go back next Tuesday for some treatment- im not filled with joy :-(

Just passing through, so Ill catch up later x

Wishing you well for tomorrow soop, you’ll have many folk cheering you on.

TOYA

soop we will be thinking of you tomorrow and praying that nobody will try to fob you off. This is your health and ability to enjoy your retirement and far too important to let someone try to cover up anything - including any inadequacies if there are any. We are all brandishing our wooden spoons! xx

My helper comes in the morning so we are planning on as much baking as energy will allow and Himself wants to blanch and freeze his fennel which has been harvested by our gardening friend. I am trying to get him to realise that accepting help is not an admission of failure! I need him not to attempt to try out the recipe he has just found for Fennel and almond soup. He thinks it will be nice as a first course for Christmas Dinner!!! It probably will be but there is plenty of time for all that. Are you starting to see the downside to a very determined man?!? Good job I love him!

He is also trying to get his driving licence renewed and I am feeling very concerned about the whole thing. It is not the done deal he seems to think as confirmed today by the DVLA who want more medical details. It is the PTSD and the sudden onset of that in an unforseen circumstance or emergency which worries me more than him using hand controls due to the loss of the leg!
Forgive me for having a moment now that he is sound asleep annd I am just going over the events of the day in my head. I am just sharing (because I need to!) and know that this is something which must be slowly worked through but I would be so thankful to have him not driving again. He was a very good advanced driver at one time but everything is very different now.

TOYA

My very best wishes for tomorrow afternoon Soop. The Balsam plant is gorgeous, I`ve not heard of them before.

n&g Congratulations are due but i have to admit I initially skim read your post about “mass poisoning” and took it to be a threat of revenge for grampy excelling himself at SW! Relieved to hear that he's safe...for now at least!!

Synonymous that kind of grit and determination is a blessing and a pain in the butt, both at the same time! Good luck with trying to persuade your stalwart man to steer the middle course, thereby staying safe and not making your bp rise!

soop wishing you well for your appointment. It can be hard to push for answers when up till now none have been forthcoming. I really hope things are changing for you now, its been a long time coming. Bon courage!

lins beautiful hanging basket, mine is looking a a bit straggly. That’ll teach me to go away on the hottest days of the year!

I’ll bid you goodnight leave with a sunset photo. I was driving home this evening and stopped at the end of the road just in time to catch it. Sleep well all x

You’ve both got adjusting to do synonymous , no wonder you had a ‘moment’ what do the medics say about your husband driving? I understand your worry, it will take time for that to pass.

Worn out after a long call from my poorly friend’s daughter who has a big heart but sometimes, just sometimes, gets herself into a pickle when her heart rules her head. On the positive side her Mum is progressing, very slowly but nothing wrong with being a tortoise.

The hibiscus is flowering it’s heart out, here’s a photo before tomorrow’s promised storms annihilate it. Cheerful and positive, that’s me today .

TOYA. sleep well everyone, happy dreams.

What a beautiful colour, corner, cheerful and positive is a good place to be! x

Morning all.

Its another blue sky start to the day here, amazing how a little sunshine perks you up !!

Love the glorious colour of your hibiscus Corner , that's cheery!!

Hope all goes well today soop !!

GrannieQ , Grampy does indeed live to fight another day :-)

Syn how positive your DH sounds. I understand your reluctance over the driving but it sounds like a milestone for him so I hope some compromise can be reached where he feels 'normal' again and you are not worried too much.

I am off to throw some syn free cheese and onion scones in the oven to take for todays taster session ( scones is a broad term in this cake , more like little cheese flavoured rocks , but hey ho- any port on a diet !!)

I shall return later after giving my lengthy acceptance speech lol

Good morning all.
I slept so badly as usual that
I slept in after dosing off again at about 7am.
It is dull but warm today, so far not the rain we are promised.

Synonymous when we had our caravan in Wales a regular visitor to another van had had a leg amputated.
He drove, occasionally left his leg off and hopped around the decking, was very agile,however he was in his early fifties and had probably had a long time to get used to it.I think what I am saying is, anything is possible with determination, let your H find his own loss ( if you can).

My hibiscus has about 6 measly flower buds, it hasn't done well for a couple of years, I think a good talking to and a great of being uprooted is in order.

Must away and find something to do, there is lots but the cleaner is coming tomorrow instead of Thursday so I have yet another excuse to do b....r all.

TOYA

Fat finger or auto correct?
Dozed not dosed and I have already forgotten what loss was meant to say!!!
I think it must have been possible.

Good afternoon everyone from a thundery Brittany. Poor weather however, is giving me a chance to catch up.

soop sending positive thoughts and love, hoping this afternoon's appointment brings much deserved progress. X

N&G your mass poisoning warning was hilarious, it really cheered me up to read it and I bet the results were delish.

Hope everyone who had a poor night's sleep is having a better day...ann I hope you have a better night tonight.

Granny Gravy, I felt for you yesterday at the dentist, sometimes childhood fears stay with us! As a child of the fifties I have never overcome my mother's fear of dentists...I'm afraid I inherited her fear and yet I know it's irrational!

Nannytopsy, I feel for you. It seems so unnecessary to have this extra layer of paperwork. DH keeps paperwork for years but I'm sure we'd be hard pressed to produce 'stuff' for our last boiler.

Dear Syn, sending thoughts of support re the DVLC issue. DH changed his UK licence to a French one which seems to not require the checks etc. Don't know how I feel about that but I know since life has been on hold while he waits for his back op the possibility of still having a licence has lifted his spirits.

corner, what a beautiful hibiscus. The colour is fabulous.

Well I'm going to get moving now. Not had much luck in finding a non-sweet beetroot chutney recipe and this afternoon I'm going to try and scour the Internet for one that's spicy and hot!

Millionaires shortbread and mini Florentines with a cup of tea for anyone who drops in today.

TOYA xx

A bonnie, sunny Tuesday afternoon to you lovely lot.

Synonymous Your dear husband's spirit is tubo-charged. I'm sure that he will be given all the guidance he needs by those in the know. Our pal in the care home repeatedly asks us to be sure that his car is being kept in good condition for when he needs it. He's been bed-bound for almost five years. There is no car. We tell him that, should the time arrive when he's able and active, we'll go with him to the nearest garage. It isn't going to happen. But, imagining that it might puts a smile on his face.

corner The colour of your hibiscus is my number one favourite. The jeans I'm wearing today is just that shade of purple. Delicious!

ann There is no need to find an excuse for doing "b all." I am getting the hang of it. If cows can stand and stare...so may we.

queenie What a delightful sky. I haven't taken a photo of one for a few days. Maybe tonight.

Nannytopsy I asked MacSporran for his opinion. He said that it's been so many years since he was up to date with such rules and regs. Hence I cannot advise you. Sorry.

Bellanonna We should all try to view the world through the eyes of a child. It's a priviledge.

Care home visit went as well as can be expected. T, the lady I visit, said little but smiled a lot. When she fell asleep, I got out of my chair as quietly as possible and as I turned to go...she put out her hand and drew me back.

Will report back re visit to GP later this afternoon. A representative from the Cornwall Hospital Board has been in touch. I am hopeful of info in due course. In the meantime...hey ho...I'm in warrior mode.

corner - the jeans are - not is.

Hello Carillion, have just read your post. How come you know that Millionaires shortbread are my husband's number one favourite treat and...florentines are mine? Ah well, See you later. Save a plateful please.

I'd just put some washing on the line when it occurred to me to look at my phone's weather app. It told me that it would rain in 26 minutes. So I brought the washing back in and it did rain when it was predicted. As it also said it would thunder at 4pm, I am holding on before I decide to go out to the shops. It's still raining. Again.

There's a howling gale here in grey Mid Sussex. OH has just informed me in lugubrious tones that my row of gladioli, just ready for cutting, has been smashed to the ground. He always seems to get great enjoyment from imparting bad news! I must venture out to see if the runner bean wigwam has survived.

Next door's cat yowled at the window, asking for shelter, so we've been having a lovely cuddle. He now knows that "go to sleep" means that he is to lie down on my lap and stop kneading his claws into my flesh! Clever cat.
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TOYA, especially those with "buggerations".

anno Technology can be a very useful thing.

chicken The heavy rain overnight bashed a few dozen tall white daisies to the ground. Plenty of dead heading to do after ironing duty tomorrow.
Cats are one of the cleverest creatures created.

I've had a lengthy appointment with the lady GP. I was her last patient of the day. Forty five minutes of her undivided attention. It doesn't get much better than that.
I do have another UTI. I have yet more anti bios. Sample of wee gone to the lab.
She has all the paper work that I've compiled for her to read whensoever she has the time. Apart from being a wonderful GP, she's also a trusted friend.
She will keep on top of my complicated case, and if at all possible, arrange for me to have an in-depth scan on the pelvic area. I feel heaps better for seeing her. A little hope goes a very long way.

TOYA. After ironing duty, I shall call into our kitchen for further news and an exchange of points of view.